Guys out there have this problem... Why don't girls like me?
By sheyzlviv
@sheyzlviv (40)
Philippines
April 26, 2009 5:06am CST
Boys usually have this problem on why girls don't like them. I told my brother that he's old enough to date and find someone who is attractive. In the past, though he tried to start a relationship, he felt like as though he was crashed and burned. I also told him that if you would like to get know a girl, he should consider some factors. He has to do something not to impress a girl but to win his heart. The problem is most of the boys think that girls would easily get attracted and dying to date them when they were like being boast of everything they possess.
Do you think they should do a certain way to pursue a particular girl? Guys out there.. feel free to give some tips and defend your part.
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5 responses
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Lol! It's all about the technique. Boys should act like they don't care. lol! Ladies usually hate pushy guys. Ladies love boys with too much pride or confidence on himself. You know, like boy whose mind doesn't revolve on ladies but on other things too like his passion. I think your brother should start on himself. Dress up appropiately and act classy, i mean decently. Boys who possess a bad boy image would normally end up with a bad girl and that's bad news for him because she'll burst his ego if she happens to cheat. You said your brother is old so i guess it's his opportunity to find a girl who's matured. Single matured ladies most probably entertain your brother provided he respects them and treats them well.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Apr 09
All I know is somebody has to stop being a single for a long time now.
@ralphido (842)
• India
1 May 09
well... sounds like your brother needs a bit of training to get his act together.. the only problem your brother is facing is he is scared to fall in love with a girl.. as a matter of fact., that's one problem all guys face,,... see, guys usually like to flirt around girls casually .. hoping to get physical without getting emotionally attached but its hard to do if you have a noble heart.. any guy can sweep any girl off the feet but in order to do so he must pawn his heart to the devil..enjoy mylotting... ;)
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Apr 09
Hi sheyz, first, I appreciate your concern for your brother. I hope he does find the love of his life. Is he choosy? Some guys are really choosy and they end up failing in relationships, or not finding any at all.
As a girl , I don't like guys who are pushy (I agree with modstar). Girls like to be won, not forced. We like it when guys run after us because that's when and how we feel pretty and special. But of course I don't speak for everyone because some girls like to do the running-after.
If your brother is matured, then I guess he could go for someone who is within his wavelength, not necessarily the same in all aspects, and same in age. Some young girls are mature mentally. And don't deprive him of the chance of finding someone who is attractive coz a lot of bachelorettes out there are actually very much attractive but would rather look for a man with substance.
@L30n84 (43)
• Australia
27 Apr 09
LOL ... I guess I am on the same boat as your brother then ... perhaps even worse. I have never been confident enough to confess to a girl ... everytime I meet with the girl that I like I just freeze much like a liberty statue ... but less charming -_-.
So yeah sorry I cannot give any tips. If any, I would be glad to receive tips, in fact this is one of the reason why I take a look at this post ^_^. But good luck to your brother!
L30n84
