If your bf/gf texted you a sweet message but it's not your name in the text....

if ever.. i will freak out..and i will send him back the text message with different name of a guy that i want..and leave him right away..coz i dont think that there is excuse for that..that's so obvious that he is flirting with another girl, considered cheating..... :) happy mylotting..have a nice day

whoa... i'd definitely have a fit and break up with my bf if that happens to me. sooo stupid... so his girlfriend is playing behind his back eh? he should just dump her, she's not worth it. if she had done this to him now, she could do it later too when they are already married. that just shows how unfaithful his gf is.

Hello n30wing, Oh, that's bad! I think the girlfriend forgot to check the number before sending it to her boyfriend or purposely did that to get a break from him! I don't know how I should react if this kind of situation happens to me. I might get mad at once... A friend of mine had the same experience like this. But he acted as a third party and tried to test his wife. Unfortunately, the wife sent all kind of sweet and sensation messages to the man whom she thought like her; without knowing that the person is her own husband! Husband got angry but didn't do anything drastic. The last time I heard about them, they were still a couple!

That is something very hard for a man to take because it shows she was cheating on him. I would say he needs to sit her down and ask her why...some peopel would try to say how they made a mistake and so on and so forth...but she clearly feel deeply for someone else so she should just be cut loose. I would find it hard to trust someone like that.

At first i would ask my boyfriend about it if he was the one who text it. Maybe there's someone who borrows his cellphone and it was accidentally sent to me. I would clarify things first before i'll react. But if it happened to me a couple of times for sure i would really get mad. And i will confront him.

Hello n30wing, I would definitely be upset and ask him about it. But at the end I would probably break up with him. Happy myLotting!

Personally I think overall he does have a right to be mad. Especially if it was a romantic text to someone else, or they were talking Bad about their boyfriend and relationship to someone else as well. But Text messages can be a dangerous thing for sure, as well as IM if you accidently message the wrong person the wrong thing. But in reality this could be the Best for him for sure if she is wanting too, or seeing someone else. Just not a Good way for anyone to find out though.

I would pretty shocked myself. I would have to cool down than ask my husband what the text was meant. By looking at his eyes I can tell if what he says is a lie or not. but that and his reaction could have me tell him to take a hike or go facy himself for awile.

that is absolutely a two timer sweetheart. he better break up with the girl without the second thought of having any reservation at all. infidelity is apparent and it could happen anytime, again....

I dont have a bf rite now. If it happen to me, i would text him right back using another mans name. Cant blame your office mate for his reaction.

What a heart_breaking experience!Maybe it shows me the end of my relationship.I wont talk to him first.I will give a second thought on my relationship.And I'll just wait and see. Probably,I will break up with him.I cant stand to be cheated.

I would have asked for an explanation before anything. If I had found out it was true I would have broken up with her though. partially because she was cheating on me and partially because she is just dumb for accidentally doing that.

one can still afford to be sane here. they're just in the courtship stage. he needs to get out. fate has its way of helping us by letting us know of certain things before they become our personal crosses. if this girl is really like this and they get married no amount of cheating, i believe, should make any child suffer the pain of a broken home.

That's not a good experience. It just explaned how unfaithful the partner is. For the guy, the decision is urs. Can u stop the from cheating? If u can't, pls, quit now before it's too late. Goodluck.

This girl is cheating and what has happen in the dark is now in the light. What your friend need to do is to try and overcome this deceit not to just walk out but sit down and ask his girlfriend what is happening. It is sad but still he need to get to the bottom of this.

everybody can do something wrong.. but if the letter is for your friend, and she write wrong... i think the girl has something not right... break her up

In case that happens to me I will instantly break up with my BF. If he tries to explain I will not listen because that's obviously cheating. He can't be confused when he will be sending me with sweet texts because he loves me not unless he loves (me and her other GF) and he's busy texting the both of us.

If this will happen to me I will really try to reflect on our relationship.Is it really working?Do we still feel the same way for each other?Do I see changes in him/her?Then I will confront my partner,whatever the response is,I will try to have an open mind and accept it (even if it hurts and I will never ever understand it).

I wont go for a break up.It depends on how far you have understood your bf/gf.It's a matter of trust.If you lose your trust in your bf/gf, you can't by any means continue that relationship.But before you react, you must think twice because, the wounds caused by words are sharper than weapons.If your bf/gf was really loyal to you and, you hurted him/her due to some misunderstanding,you will have to regret in the future because of your own actions.So if such a situation comes,i would think with a cool head and try to be postive,as positive thinking always gives us hope.

I just send her, "Hei, R U in a good mood? Who's your BF??" I have to arrange a litle discusion with her. Ask her what she wants. But actually make sure that we are not lost our mind. Hope she just testing my loyalty and give me some courage to love her again and again!