What would you do if that person trying to avoid you?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
April 26, 2009 12:45pm CST
At the most difficult time, you help your friend get through his/her problems with support, finance, and everything. After he/she got through it, he/she was trying to avoid you. What would you do? Is that really something? Don't you think that you were too stupid to help him/her out?
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4 responses
@duskiss (98)
• China
26 Apr 09
Well this case happend on one of my best friends before, we no longer trust the one who is irresponsible, may I use irresponsible to describe him, one recieve help from others should respond as much as he can, being reluctant or evasive is a dishonest manner and we'd better stay awy from such one, I don't think we're stupid for giving help, but we can take it as a lesson and gain experience.
@rexythesexy (174)
• India
26 Apr 09
I would no longer be interested in that person (if the person is not that important for me).I just hate it when someone ignores me . And I feel I am sort of superior to him and never ever care about that person anymore.
@pal7604 (98)
• Sweden
26 Apr 09
Confront your friend and ask what is going on?
She might be feeling bad as you do because you feel that
she is avoiding you and likewise.
Talk to her and ask how she is and make her be aware of how
you feel. I am sure the doors open to a good solution.
Good-luck!
@John4Christ (1597)
• India
26 Apr 09
This happened many a times with me......many people approach me for somethings and try to be very pally with me.....i usually cant make out why these people are coming towards me and with what intentions.....me with a clean heart go ahead an try helping them out......but once their work is done they don't even look at you....you do feel stupid at that time.....but remember one thing you would get this feeling only if you are expecting something out of that person....if you just helped out of courtesy then i feel it makes o difference.....you just did you bit that you could.....