Do you still give second chances to people who you wanted to forget?

Tweet

Well, there is this person, a friend, who almost fell in love with me in the past, but I tried to be casual to him as much as possible for I know the fact he has a girlfriend. He always wanted to see me and so, I came to him on the time he set. Then when I tried to do the same to him, he rarely said yes. And one time, when I was calling him, he kept on dropping the call. One time, I sent an SMS to him, asking him if he's angry at me or what? Then he replied, he wanted to avoid me to save our friendship. Fine. I granted his request. So we avoided each other for a long time. Sometimes, I tend to approach him to talk to him when we meet in parties we both are fond of attending despite the sad incident. I swallowed my pride because I believe that time we're still "friends" though I just feel like he wanted to withdraw himself from me whenever we encounter each other. Then there are times that when we crossed paths again, I have this dilemma whether to smile at him or not, but I prefer to be neutral. While walking in the hall of the party, when we were about to draw near to each other, he was the one who snob me. As we got past each other, I felt as if a bad wind passed by. Recently, when I opened one of my account in a social network, there was a friend request for me. And as I open the link, it was very surprising! From all the people, the one who's avoiding me is the one adding me. I wonder why... It's not a big deal afterall. I have forgiven him already. I was about to forget almost everything and move on with my life. However, my doors of friendship are not close for him. But I just find it strange. I know he has an account there but I don't attempt to add him because of what he said. My account has been created for a long time. How come, he's adding me just now? I have these thoughts of whether he has just found my account lately or perhaps he's aware of its existence in the net eversince and he's secretly viewing it. If you are in my case, will you accept his friend request? As much as I wanted to, but how about the thing he said to me before? Does it still take effect?