How do you feel when Your partner does not say everything to you whereas you do?

i would feel bad, of course. it's like, my partner is not trusting me of things about himself/herself. When you keep things from each other, eventually, something about it may come up and dealing with it will be harder because you are not prepared for it. I mean, for you to keep it secret ? it must be something bad.

Hi there! I can understand how you feel. if it happens to me i would feel awful but this thing. But like someone in here already told you, by hiding things from him like he is doing with you, you wont solve anything. Maybe if you start doing so you will see that things will change between you two. In my opinion, the best solution is to talk to him but as i read from a reply of yours he still does the same. Well, maybe you should make some things clear and try to get an answer of why he doesnt share things with you. If I were in your place it would bother me a lot. I mean its nice to share some things at least about work and daily things that happen.But as I told you, I wont do like he does or else your relationship changes. He lives his life and you live yours. I think what will happen is that both of you will never get to know each other properly. Try to explain the real facts that you dont want to know his things, just for the sake to know what he is doing, but start sharing between each other and start to getting to know more about each other.

In my mind, the notion of exchange mustn't exist in love. Once I choose someone as the man of my life, I can do almost all for him without asking him to do the same thing for me. Honestly, I don't say everything to him. If I talk to him about my work, I just show him enough info to affirm that what I'm doing is not against the law and the morality. Of course he may want to know more, but I don't answer the questions which go too far (I have the sense of protect the privacy of my clients, for example). He respects my personal corner and on the contrary, I respect the his. Sharing the life doesn't mean killing all kinds of secret (if it happens, you'll become less interesting because he finds you having nothing to learn and to discover). Besides, there's something that should be kept in silence forever, you could regret to try to reveal it.

It makes me feel bad as well when my partner does not tell everything to me. I don't think, though, that doing the same to him would help the situation. Maybe you can talk things over, tell him that it bothers you that he hides things from you, and probably ask him why he does that. Hopefully he gets to understand what you feel and he'll start opening up to you. The best of luck to you both!