Your girlfriend, your mother, wich do you prefer?

uggg thats harsh!!if my mother asked me for money even if i didnt have it i would borrow it for her!she is the one who cared for me and paid for all the things i had as a child adn if she needed help i wouldnt hesitate to help.that is so ignorant of that guy,he coulda at least split the 500between the both of them!

I honestly can relate to this. My brother prefer his wife than our parents. My brother, wife and my parents came from a party. On there way home, my brother told our parents to get out of the car and just get a cab because his wife and him are still going somewhere else. My parents are already at their seventies. I just wish that he has a decency to bring home our parents first before they proceed with their date. This is not the first time. Early this year, we learned that my brother has unpaid loan. When my elder sister ask where did he use the money, he reply that his wife's parents needs money to renovate their house. Imagine, he was doing all this sacrifices for his wife even if it means that he has to suffer the consequences. I am so scared that the time will come that it could be to late for him to realize that he was too blinded for his love to his wife.

In a perfect world there are only two women in a man's life that should ever be important. His mother and his girlfriend/wife. To not be truthful to either reflects a very deceitful person. If he can set to deceive either one of them he will have no problem deceiving anyone and everyone else. What I think of such guys is they are never to be trusted. If in this case he had good reason not to love and provide for his mother he should be up front about it. As for a girl friend the responsibility to her is only as good as the relationship is. When a man takes a wife she becomes the most important person in his life and all others should know that. That does not mean that it is okay then to be deceitful to his mother no matter what their relationship is.

Chosing between your girl and your mom...who will you prefer? Is just chosing between wants and needs...Wants(refer to your girl)and needs (refer to your Mom).For one simple reason, she is just your girl but she is your mother... For me, directly, i would prefer my mother than my girl.But there are intances wherein chosing is a little bit confusing but one way to solve it, consider Love, Trust and Respect...If that is all present then, you will be guided what would be your responce or actions.

This is Too Funny ..................... I dont want to say anything ...... But a good post .. Good Work !