suppose to be...
By Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
Philippines
April 27, 2009 11:21am CST
It should have been our anniversary today but sad to say she decided to end our relationship and now she is trying to win me back. And this is what I am planing to text her:
I have said it from the start that I'll try to re-assess myself whether or not I still love you. I did not guarantee anything but I am so wrong letting you hang there without an assurance of something. I would love to talk to you personally and spill my heart out. I do not want to hurt you and I am afraid you'll be hurt more than I do. But I guess you are ready now and can continue with or without me. And that gives me a relief.
I have tried and I even prayed hard... but I guess my love was lost and never will be found again. I am sorry... I'd loved you but I got tired loving you.
Remember this, you will stll be the girl I have loved eversince until the day you left. God bless us.
What do you think? Please tell me if I should send it or not... thanks for your help. And you can suggest much better way to say it.
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8 responses
@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Apr 09
How could I, or anyone else, better say what is in your heart? You were very elequant and I think you hit all the nails square on their little heads. It is a sorry thing that the first hurt has to try to keep from hurting the person who has hurt you. She is ready now. I think she is now seeing what she lost and you are strong to not be her obseesion and let her get away with it. Life goes on and it is short.
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@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
19 May 09
You seem very kind and perhaps this will work out better than you think.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
28 Apr 09
That sounds good enough and smooth.. I like all the words u have used in there, and it's really touching if they really comes from your heart.. U should really send her this message, especially the part, "I'd loved u but i got tired loving u"..
Because once u got tired of loving or caring for someone, it can only mean one thing, that person is no longer important in your life, and that it's not worth it to love them anymore.. Hopefully after reading your messageto her, she will be more ready to give up on the relationship, and move on in life..
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 May 09
Give her time.. Even though u might be able to get over it fast, but it does not mean that she's able to do too.. And even if u manage to get it over faster than her, it does not mean that the relationship holds no importance to u as well..
Rather, u are handling things in a much matured manner and u decide to let go, as it u care about her feelings in the long run ^_^
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@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Apr 09
hi, if she is trying to get back with you , y u wanna break it,,if u love her so much.
whatever u have mentioned for msging her looks decent and good but this will attract her back to you and i can bet that she can nvr resist on coming back to you.
if u think that u need her in ur life than y cant u juz settle things between you and her and celebrate your anniversary rather than being sad..
take care
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@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Jhordie,
I can see what you're trying to do, but this is a confusing message. You're encouraging her by saying you look into yourself, and she's the girl you've loved, then telling her that your love for her is lost and won't be found again. Decide which way you really feel, and tell her clearly, with no equivocation. You'll both be better for that.
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@thanusha85 (532)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 09
Hi Jhordie
Its very sad to read the text. However, if your girl has left you on a special ocassion of you both then she deserves this text. Be strong and Relax
Thanusha
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
22 May 09
That sounds great. I am sorry I am coming to this a month late. It was truthful, and straight to the point. I have learned recently that some women try to read in between the lines of what is said. this says it all, plainly. I really like the line " I 'd loved you but I got tired loving you."Did it work? Are you happy now?
@Spook619 (335)
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27 Apr 09
I reckon it's 95% perfect, it's well structured and not vindictive or hurtful but does tell her that you wouldn't feel comfortable getting back together with her... it feels like it's lacking a little zest or something, but I'm not they one sending the message.
Best of luck!
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