Knock - Knock Anybody home?

I guess I am lucky. I have a wonderful family that I can talk to. I am almost never alone. lol - sometimes I crave to be alone. My husband listens to me ramble on and on all time. lol - I bet he craves to be alone sometimes too! I hope it works out for you that you find more people to confide in.

well, i too feel and need someone to listen to me... but eventually i find that there is no one whho would listen to me in detail or no one who would feel like me so i don't intend discussing my feelings and emotions. well, still there are few people who would like to listen to me and would also feel like me and feel for me... but if i discuss my problems with them they would get worried and i would not like to see them worried for me.

Hi! Welcome to mylot! I had a very serious conversation with my BF yesterday. It was about the same thing. He was not respecting me anymore. Not the way he used to. He gets grumpy fast, every time I try to say something, he gets irritated. He started putting me down. Everything I tried it was wrong or stupid, according to him. Yesterday I had enough. We had a good talk, and today things are almost back to normal. Sure he is having a hard time, most of the time we have no money. But, I have a hard time too. I cannot pay the bills. I can't go shopping or buy new things. I am at home most of the time, so I don't need money. But, on the other hand I do get a little lonely every now and then. When my BF is home, I want to be able to talk without being afraid of getting grump t at. I don't like to be treated like that. I have learned to have self respect and positive thinking. But when others around you keep be belittling you, this is not easy to keep up. Take care, have a nice evening.