Mental struggling while in love

United States
April 27, 2009 9:24pm CST
Sometimes, you were so deeply in love with a girl. You always wonder where she is at now; and what she is doing at the moment. The best thing to find out is to call her with your phone. If you made a call too much, you might accused to be a stalker. If you express your concern over her, she might thought you are lame, or sissy. Mental struggle is the severe at the moment. Should you call or not call?
3 responses
• China
28 Apr 09
as far as i know,there are many ways to express your love to your girlfriend. you can stay with her and talk with her,explain your ways of express love,i think she will understand you~ when two people fall in love together the most important thing is to understanding with each other and respect his or her freedom~ just my two cents~ enjoy yourself mylot friends~
• India
28 Apr 09
I guess the whole suggestion of what she will think comes from, what kind of emotional level is their between you two!If she also loves you the way you love her then I dont think there is any scope of some one misreading your acts but at the same time its a great possibility that what you describe as a Love might be a fatal attraction and you be infatuated with her , then I guess your act certainly be labeled as questionable and you can fear of all kind of interpretation from her.
@qinqinoen (127)
• China
28 Apr 09
I understand your feeling.When i fall in love a boy i also wonder where he is and what he is doing.I want to be with him at any time.I think if she also very loves you she will be very happy to receive your call at any time.But if you are pursuing a girl you'd better find out when she is free and when is suitable to call her.It is no need to call much.I think having a date is a better way to enhance mutual understanding and promote affection.