who would you choose, the one you love or the one who loves you?

i would not choose between the two. i dont want to be in a situation where i would be hurt and i would hurt someone else especially the one who loves me. its a no-win situation...imagine i would choose the one i love, would i be truly happy knowing for certain that the man i love dont truly love me back. i would invite unhappiness,resentment,bitterness,and all the negative feeling in the world, which would totally be utter torture. and then i would choose the man who loves me...which i know i wont be happy bec. deep down in my heart i dont love him and i cant reciprocate the love freely given...it would make me guilty, totally brutal and i dont want to be that kind of person. i would know how he feels bec. i can put myself in his shoes and feel that longing feeling that someday she should love me but knowing it cant happen. so i would not be that person to slowly kill the person...when he has better ways of moving on with his life and eventually love another who will finally give back the much love he is craving for. and i would be moving on also and finally if god would be very kind give me finally the man that will love me also in return.

wow, this is a tough one. Of course if I could I'll stick to the one I love but loving someone who doesn't love you back is hard. I could give the one who loves me a chance but if I can't give him the kind of love he deserves, I might as well not give him hope. It's better to be friends than ending up as enemy.

would I choose the one who loves me even if I dont love him/her or the one who DOESNT love me even though I love him/her?? NEITHER...I dont need a mate to be happy and if its not a two way street then whats the point?? thats just wasting time IMO

One thing is cleared.The one I love doesn't love back.And in that case,if the one who loves me is pleasing for me,then I will choose her.But if she is not up to my likings,then I will cancel that idea.What is there to go with a person you cannot love?Cheers!

I think it is always better to choose the one who loves you. Because the only person who can make you have is the person who loves you but not the person whom you love. Sometimes people make a mistake of sticking with the person whom they love although the person does not love them. According to me this is the most foolish think to do. Because love is a relation that is complete only when there are two parties involved . One sided love is nothing but a infatuation. Again if the person whom you love accept you then also he/she will not be the one who can take the best care of you.

All want both if is possible, but in life never can take and have all, and everytime, peoples who are involoved in a love story can t be egual inlove. But if i can choice, i will choice somebody who i love, and of course i want love back...all we want this. But what we want and what we have...is different. love is so strange, can t be as we want

Hi Mariejoycepalo, This is the question we've been asked and asked other people. Which one would you choose to get married with or to be with? The one you loved or the one who love you? I think this is a trick questions, i mean if you love someone, and he/she don't love you at all, i think you don't even have a chance to be together,vice versa. I think your question should be, will you choose the one you love him/her more than he/she love you? Or will you choose the one he/she love you more than you love he/she? Is that right? If so, the it's more easy for me to answer, i will choose the one who love me more than i love him, i know it sounds selfish, but that's what i am thinking now.

It would be better to choose the one you love. Moreover, it would be better to choose the one who love you more than to choose the one you love more. What I mean is, in a relationship, it would be better that the guy has greater love to the girl than the other way around.

Oh wow this is tuff. I think I would go with the one who I love.