how to recover from heartbreak?

China
April 28, 2009 4:14am CST
it's heartbreak to break up with your half, most of the lovers are parted coz of others, this is not that bad, the worst is that you two love each other, and there's nobody else, just coz of health conditions. do not take happiness for granted. this is what i realized recently. how to recover from the pain?
2 responses
@russso (1693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
Each time we get into a relationship, the possibility of heartbreaks and heartaches will always be there. After all, life isn't always a bed of roses. Now if we do experience heartbreaks, it really is going to be difficult and painful. BUT things happen for a reason and no matter how painful these heartaches are, we ought to remember that life goes on. :) . Give yourself time to sulk. Cry if you must. . After that, pick yourself up. Go out with friends. . And most important, learn from your experiences.
@ilawise26 (191)
• India
28 Apr 09
Hi daisy cai. Welcome to Mylot!!! First of all i would like to tell you that in Mylot we prefer discussions which are to the point in nature. Your question leaves me confused. The sentences are incomplete which may not compel users to attempt your question. So,from next time please try to be clear with your question. --- I would still make an attempt to your question from what i understand. I'm considering your question as How to cope up with a heartbreak which is caused due to people u know and not the person you love. --- Daisy,i would suggest that if the love is true, there should be no force strong enough to part the lovers. However,if there is a pressure of breaking up because someone close to you wants you to do that; you should not give in so quickly.Sometimes you can pretend that you have broken up,while continuing your relation. Keep telling the person that its a loss for you and that you are shattered. If that person really cares for you, he/she will agree for your reunion. In some cases,they are very reluctant people who want you to breakup. Here,you need to decided between two people. Once you do that you are on your way without the pressure of the breakup. Here,again,if the person who was forcing a breakup loves you,he/she will come back to you. So patience is the key in such cases.Do not lose heart and convince your loved ones though it may be a slow process.All the best!!! Keep mylotting and mark your best answers!!!