fall in love with someone 20 years older than you

I don't mind falling in love with older women but not as as old as 20 years ahead of me. I think a clash of difference will surface and it will just be a matter of time. Maybe around 5 years older will do for me but definitely not 20 years. She's more like a mother or an aunt to me because that's their generation. I don't think a lady 20 years older than me would like me. I don't think she'll like the way i behave or my lifestyle.

Falling in love is a chemistry kind of thing. When you fall in love, you fall in love. It is not something which is controllable, I believe. However, you may consider if you want to have the relationship due to external factors, like age. I think too great difference in age does affect in maintaining a relationship, as the level of maturity is different.

I love! older men.... especially the sal peper guys mmmmm well experience mmmm sounds lovly already lol and for me that is the young one and make him feel young again too just cause of my youth is a rewarding feeling.

I think I won't really mind about age. The most important thing is whether I'm happy with that someone or not.

I am married to a man 3 years younger than me. I don't see myself ever falling for a man 20 years older than me. I think it would be to wierd. It would be like dating a teacher or a parent. I don't think I could do it. This is my opinion!

Hmm, fall in love & married a woman 20 years older than me? Fall in love is possible but not for married too much consideration to start a family. Don't forget most woman more mature and aging faster than man. But for the man is possible to married a much younger woman. When the woman reach 25 above the age gap (in term of physical) is close to the older man (10-20 yrs). Sometime I'm very surprised to found that some of jr female colleague are 15 yrs younger than me, and we don't fell any gap. It could be the female are more mature than the male at the same age especially for those highly educated. I have female colleague who is MBA from top school in US, she is really mature and looks older than her age from her body language and the way she think & talk. We both surprised when we found out our age gap more than decade! Usually when we start having conversation about family,kids,married. In another hand, for those female colleague which are in 40's the youngster often disturb them by calling "auntie". Perhaps this is the advantage being a man, ha...ha...ha..

I won't!Cause I don't believe that age is not a problem.It do has some differences between such two people.Their values,their view to kids,their friends are so different!I don't think I can enter a social circle which is consisted of people who are 20 years older than me!Besides,it will make my parents embarrassed if I get marrried with a man who is 20 years older than me.I don't want to make my parents go into such a terrible situation.

We can't choose whether to fall in love or not.My favorite definition of this thing is "immediate chemistry".You meet someone and you don't have questions anymore.About nothing.You do everything so you could enjoy the moment.I don't care about age unless the person finds it difficult to move and to breathe. ;D