will you forgive your friend who back bites about you
By umamahe
@umamahe (99)
India
April 28, 2009 11:25am CST
will you be able to forgive your close friend if he/she talks bad about you at your back..this really makes me feel low about them..some people forgive easily but i am not able to do so..whenever i see them or meet them i turn them off or smartly avoid talking with them..its difficult for me to digest such people..they don't even mind coming to us and talk very coolly as if nothing has happened..its really annoying!! how to deal with such kind of people?
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@Wizzywig (7847)
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28 Apr 09
I wouldn't consider a person who would do that to be a close friend. A real friend would tell you to your face if they had some issue with you. I think I would confront that person and say that, if they had a problem with me, I would appreciate them being honest and giving me the chance to put things right between us rather than criticising me to others.
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@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
28 Apr 09
They don't think they do anything wrong, that is why they stay so cool.
I have friends like this. Lately I avoid them, they are not real friends.
Real friends don't talk behind your back in a bad way.
When I see this certain person, I remember I cannot say to much to her.
But, this does not make if fun to go out and have a chat. Better off here in mylot.
I stay normal and think by myself: "She is a sad women, she only see's bad things in others, but does not see it of herself. She is worse!".
Take care, have a nice day.
I stay normal and think by myself: "She is a sad women, she only see's bad things in others, but does not see it of herself. She is worse!".
Take care, have a nice day.