I dont like myself.....

i don't like myself when i'm unable to say NO to some family or friends even if i wanted to or that i needed to. i mean, i should have voiced it out some more... but then i didn't. and i don't like it. i don't like myself when we're letting out steam and we just have to let it off our chest somehow and i tend to do a little cursing and i definitely don't like it. i actually started to think if i had a mean bone in my body. foul language is a no-no in the family... that's why when somebody just blurt it out... it's really a cause for concern... meaning, the situation is worse than what we are saying. and i don't like myself now for holding on to someone and feeling guilty about planning to break off with him after 3 1/2 years. i should have done it on the 2nd year, but i didn't... i couldn't. but i realize now that i should have. how i overcome those? hehehe anyhows, i am learning to say NO to some people. i've only cursed one guy, and it's because he hurt my sister a lot. and whatever guilt i'm feeling towards my boyfriend... my need to move on with my life is even greater.

I've never really said that I don't like myself. However, I will admit that I've been "disappointed IN myself", on a few occasions. To go into any details regarding those particular occasions, would probably require me to write a complete historical biography. (-smile-) :-) Just kidding. I've had my moments...but again...never DIDN'T like myself. I believe it's important, to remember the difference. cdrxo

yeah, i say that too myself too, because sometimes i see people who i know that is better than me, or more confident than me. i envy those people who have great talents, and have high self esteem. i also want to have a high self esteem, so that i can face anything.. when this happens, i just try to excel in whatever i am good at, and prove them that i am also the best, and that i can institute change...self talk helps me too...and my family and friends..

If I watch myself into the mirror just after getting wake up after a good sleep, I would say the same line of words, "I don't like you, pal. Look at you, you look awful". Other than that, I would say, "I love myself"!

This happens when something goes wrong, usually buying stocks or betting on a horse that loses.

i didn't say i don't like myself before.even if i didn' think like that.ahh.i think i should like myself first then i like others better.be good ,my lotter.

I think we all need self-esteem. Because the survival of human beings in society. Take into account the relationship between social status and the existence of. On the separation of the hierarchy. With each person to their own social positioning. But everyone is capable,just different. So we have to respect everyone,people will respect us.

I like myself. And there is no reason i won't like myself. I am not saying i am perfect. But the lacking or if there is something i don't like about myself i try to improve it. It seems you don't like your self...why?

Sometimes when we feel that we are not as good as the other, we may feel like we really hate ourself. According to me, these feeling show up because we do not have self confidence. we do not trust our ability to compete with the other. I should admit that we can not win to all people in the world. It is almost impossible for us to be good in everythings. But,... we are just a human. We have weakness. As long we always try to do the best, we will not feel like hate ourself. For what??? So,... let's just do it, do the best for ourself. Do not think about how to win from the other, just think about what to do to be the best.

I don't like myself whenever I am forced to say "okay" to something I don't agree about. I think it's a form of abuse but I let it happen. Some people are just too pushy and would not take "no" for an answer. They take advantage of my being softy and it just pisses me off that they do that and I am more pissed off of myself that I usually can't say "no" to it cause they will get upset or angry at me. It's so wrong and I hardly overcome this. I get spiteful because of this and I usually end up saying to myself "what goes around comes around".

Others can make us think this too. My x husband drove my self worth inot the ground. And I gained alot of weight too. After we split I lost all the weight and was able to see friends again. My boss said to me once boy you lost alot of weight and I told him I am not sure why. He said I think it's becasue you are happy again. I wont be letting that happen to me again. Everyone is priceless and I wish others would'nt feel the need to do that to others.

Hi,HelScream Hum,I think there are not very good solutions to this kind of problems because it happend just because you have lost your self-confidence.The only thing you can do is to tell yourself that you are an excellent one.However,you should improve your ability and other related things because you won't say this words with no reason.Hope this will help! Have a nice day!

Sorry that you said 'you don't like yourself'. I never said that to myself and don't even think of this. I've got a different thinking though, it's like 'they don't like me'... lol So funny.

Yes! it is because of low self esteem and people with low self esteem lack a sense of contenment. they are not happy with themselves and with others as well. Low self esteem is one's image or belief about oneself, which is developed at an early age. Environmental factors including poor parenting skills, traumatic childhood experiences and let downings by others. The way we develop low self esteem, we can learn to improve it. We can develop a positive, high or healthy self esteem by following some simple psychological techniques. We can even help others to enhance his or her self esteem.

I have used this line: for me I think it has alot to do with low self-esteem and that I've been teased alot growing up and have let people walk all over me til I learned to stand up for myself...I used to hear awful things said to me that I started to believe it and not like myself...I still struggle with low self-esteem but it's getting better!

I did and that was out of anger to myself because I'm very dumb about this person.But my love ones never left me and gave me all the support I needed so I was able to got back on my feet again and threw him out.