Will you mind inviting your friends into your house?

thanks for the BR! very much appreciated. :)

i come from a very large family. even a simple lunch together is like a celebration... almost like a reunion of sorts. my parents, 7 other siblings, a dozen nephews and nieces, my brothers-in-law as well as my sisters-in-law... well it is literally a full house whenever we are together... with several relatives visiting as well friends of the family. the whole family is quite used to having people around. and we don't mind at all. we have a few forms of entertainment at the house for all ages. we got board games, outdoor games, videos, video games and kiddie pool for kids; all television sets are hooked in cable tv; access to internet is available along with several computers; two units of videokes for sing along; and some adults like to play poker and mahjong so we have playing cards and mahjong set. i have stayed with some friends who are also quite open to guests in their houses.

It is nice for your friends to have a host like you.But,how did your family members take this?Don't they have any hard feelings about your friends?Have you ever stayed like this in any of your friend's house?

Oh, yea. right now I am living in a new city which is away from my hometown and I am living with my family, hence, now I don't have any problem with anyone visiting my house!

Oh!You are shifted to a new city with your family now.It is glad to hear you are well settled now and we can see you more again in mylot.And can I know why you are not comfortable to welcome friends earlier?Is it related something that you can't accomodate them well in your last living place?

We should know how to differentiate between official friends and real friends and treat them different.Good old friends are always welcome any time as they bring sweet memories.Cheers!

Yes!Some families are reserved in nature and they don't like guests or friends to get into their house at ease.I have a friend like that.He use to come into all houses but will not even invite us into his house.He will turn us at the foot steps.His father and mother were too strict.In fact,he only speak little when we are at his footsteps and he wants to dispose us quickly.

That is right.A friend is supposed to be sharing and understanding.If he wants just to utilize you,then he shall be kicked off without second thought.Because he cannot serve as a friend.A good friend can assess the situation immediately.Cheers!

You are right.We have to respect every body even if it look indifferent from our point of view.They may have their own reasoning behind their actions and we can't expect them to give explanations.If they are good friends,there is no need worry about inside the house or outside the house.Only friendship matters.You provide a new dimension to this post.Cheers!

It is shocking to know you allowed four strangers into your house for 3 weeks?Can you tell me why you let them in?How did you develop friendship with them?We are talking about allowing friends to home and you are speaking about allowing strangers to home and making friends,That is unpredictable for me.Cheers!

It is great fun to arrange a get together like it once in a year.That is different.But allowing anybody at any time....will it suit you?Are you prepared for that?

Then they will feel offended and shall not turn back to your house.Once you let them in,you have to mingle with them.Otherwise it will end as an unpleasant meeting.What do you feel?

It is not an arranged meeting of friends.Just in your routine day,if there is a sudden visit of a friend who you don't expect and you don't mind either,what will you do?Will you still allow them?They may even stole your valuable time.

That is different.Enjoying well with the friends circle should not mean we should allow all of them into our house.We have to maintain our privacy and we have to filter people to have it.Cheers!

Oh!Girls can't behave otherwise,I know.You have to allow them inside and that would be the nice way to respect them.Otherwise,they will not turn back again and you will lose your friendship with her.I am talking about the boys,in general.Cheers!

We have to have some limits in a relationship.Only good friends can be allowed in our hose and not all.They may get us into trouble.Also,it will be hard to feed them with snacks and ignoring our regular duties.Cheers!

If somebody is stopped at the foot steps,then they are not understood to be good friends.They are just known people alone and they need not get access into the house.But there are people who chat for a long time outside the house,but not let them in.i think they are worried about the other members in the family.Cheers!

It seems you are a great friend to rely on hard times.As you said,I can understand you are a good entertainer for your friends and a good host too.keep it up.Cheers!

So,how many friends you have?Will you allow all of them into your house?Or you welcome back in their houses?Will they treat the same way you treat them?I am asking this because,there are some friends who get into every friend's house,but will not even welcome to their houses.Cheers!

Some friends takes more freedom that affects our privacy.It is good to avoid them one more time.I will find some excuses to keep them out,if they behave like that.Cheers!