do you dress to please your mate

United States
April 29, 2009 10:18am CST
do you dress to please your mate or do you wear what you want , i wear what i want i don't let anyone tell me what i can and can't wear , i will every once in awhile i will wear things that make my husband happy but they are also conffy but not all the time.
6 responses
• Malta
29 Apr 09
I do a bit of both. Most of the time I wear things I like to wear and that he doesn't mind either, but sometimes I really go all out in wearing things he likes. What I do, and he really likes that a lot, (even if he doesn't admit it openly) is that I put on things he bought for me. So for example if he gave me a new perfume or new make up, I put it on... If it is a nice perfume or a nice lipstick, I will look and feel better and he will be happy too.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
i do not dress to please my mate..i just wear whatever is comfortable for me, i dress so i would feel good, i dress so i will not make my mate happy and but i dress for the both of us.
@Dugsmom (279)
• United States
29 Apr 09
Unfortunately I do dress to please my mate. My hair is long to please him, I talk the way I do to please him...my whole life belongs to him. It's not fun and I wish I could be my own person.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 09
I don't wear to please others, I only wear to please myself. If I dress nicely and well, I am please of myself. I figure out that despite people's opinion on whatever I am wearing, they didn't pay for the clothes. Besides, all my clothes are comfortable enough for me.
• China
29 Apr 09
Well, I will dress up at certain circumstance. For example, when we go out together to join a party,I will dress well. I wear what I think is comfortable most of the time.
@kjasmine (21)
• United States
30 Apr 09
I am lucky enough to have a mate that doesn't care what I wear. He is very laid back and sort of primative. For example, he was married for 15 years to the same woman and believe it or not, she did not own even one piece of lingerie. Not even a silky nightie. Nothing. I actually couldn't believe it because I have never met a woman who did not own even a single pair of sexy underwear. Anyway, this whole discussion came about because I asked him which he preferred, teddies or nighties. He looked at me with the dumbfounded expression then admitted that he didn't know since his ex never wore anything like that. Anyway, He always tells me I look nice even if I'm wearing comfy cloths lol so I guess I am very lucky to have someone who doesn't care what I wear.