When do you know you're in love?

Philippines
April 29, 2009 10:43am CST
I am 26 and I've never been in love romantically. Almost all of my friends are married now and are starting their own family. On my part, however, I still can't picture myself doing the same time. It makes me wonder sometimes...how does it feels like to be in love? How will you know that that "someone" is the person you want to spend your life with?
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@chastity7 (104)
• United States
29 Apr 09
Love cannot be explained, it is just something you Feel. But I'll try. For me, it's when I can see him walking my way and my heart starts to pound and my palms start to sweat. When I forget my own name and every other intelligent thought when someone mentions his name. When I can smell his cologne and feel those butterflies starting in my stomach. When he looks in my eyes and I feel and see the same love I feel smiling back at me. When he holds my hand and I want to dance. His kisses set my heart on fire and make me weak in the knees with desire. When I can't remember my life before him and can't picture it without him. That is Love. Good Luck :) :)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
are you in love now? that's how they describe it in a book and I do want to feel it too.
• United States
30 Apr 09
Yes I am. I have been with my soulmate now for almost 10 years. We got married when I was 15 and everyone said it wouldn't last. We now have 3 amazing children and we are still so much in love. I don't really know how else to explain it. I will tell you that the books don't do it justice. Once you feel it, you Will Know it!! Best of luck to you. :) :)
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
13 May 09
There is a big difference between being in love as in "a crush" or the type of love that grows over the years when you are together. I've had 3 boyfriends in my life and with my current boyfriend I experienced what it feels like to be in love. I got the actual butterflies in my stomache (at first I thought I was going to be sick! lol!) and all of that. The giggling, feeling excited whenever that person is near. This passes over the years and it takes place for a stronger emotional band. You know each other through and through and you can depends on each other. I don't feel giggly anymore but I feel spiritually connected. I can tell him everything and nothing is more suiting than being by his side. He is my partner, soulmate and best friend. These are all pretty lame expressions, I know, but it is the best way I can desribe what love feels like. It most of the time comes along when you least expect it. Me and my boyfriend have been together for allmost 6 years now, upcoming august.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
15 May 09
Thank you so much for denoting me best response. I sincerely hope that my reply has been somewhat of use for you. It is a hard topic to describe as it has so much emotional and sentimental value. I am sure that in time you will experience it and then you will experience what a lot of people know by heart but aren't able to catch on paper in words. Happy mylotting.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
29 Apr 09
That is a hard question. I don't think you can really describe love and how you know you are in love. It is just something that you know without a doubt and you will not be able to describe it our explain how you feel.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
are you married already? or in a serious relationship? i just wanna know...it's okay if you won't tell me
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
Well only you can answer that. Each person has his/her own taste. What is lovable to me may not be lovable to you. What I find appealing may not be appealing to you. Now if you find a man that you feel so attracted and would always think of him and would also hope he is your man then that's it. I just hope that man also feels the same way to you. If so, then that will be the start of a beautiful romance.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
yes, i know that the whole thing has something to do with my emotions...maybe I am expecting so much from the other person that when opportunity knocks, I won't notice it
@venmarz13 (735)
• Indonesia
19 May 09
I ever feel in love with someone.But i never have a feel like a feel with my boyfriend now.I pass all strugles to get happy with him.I never feel worry to lose him so much like now.I cant imagine if i lose him.You know any magic in my life if i with him.I have so many acnes when i far from him.Is it true and others know it too.I dont know why.Maybe just my suggestion or what.I dont know
@larish (2213)
• Philippines
23 May 09
Don't worry, you will feel it ones you met him. No need for you to think about it, it will be your instinct that will tell you if you are already in love. Don't rush things, it will come at your unexpected time.