Would you date a FAT women or FAT Man

I'm married to an SSBBW, and I've always only been attracted to really big women. I dated thin girls in high school, because I didn't have enough guts then to not care what other people thought, so I was always miserable. Since then though, I've grown up and realized that it doesn't matter what other people think, it only matters if I'm happy and if the woman I'm with is happy. My wife is the most beautiful person I've ever known, both on the outside and on the inside. She's sweet, soft, loving, affectionate, smart, romantic, I can talk with her for hours and not get bored, cuddly, and just plain gorgeous. I love to just hold her whenever I'm with her. I don't love her or any other woman BECAUSE she's large, there's a lot more that goes along with that, but being large is the first thing that attracts me, so to speak. So now I make no excuses, I'm proud to be seen with my wife because I'm proud to BE with her, and I'm proud to BE with her because she chose ME.

i would if i really really like the guy... sometimes looks dont matter if you love a person. i have lots of fat friends way back in college, and we go along pretty well. and i have known some fat people too that are really offensive... man talk about attitude and weight getting together. although for me, for myself, i dont want to really get fat (no offense meant), so i try to exercise a little and do my own style of losing weight. people will like you because of who you are not how fat you are...although there are really people that goes by the looks, dont mind them, they are not the majority. we just cant help it though if sometimes fat people get second looks, especially those that are really big ones, you know how the society is...

I did. As a matter of fact, my first girlfriend was. At the same time, she was also sweet, fun, and all around a great person. She was 16, I was 17. It was because of her, my opinion was and is, looks are NOT everything, in fact, it's way way down on my list. Personality, sensitivity and just how much we have in common. That shows how well you're going to get along, not looks. So I would date a fat woman, I would have a relationship with a fat woman and I would marry one. Oh, by the way, I would also bring her around to all my friends. Of course, I am 52, not in my teens. But even back then, I was more concerned about how I feel about a girlfriend, not what my friends think and it's too bad he let his friends prevent him from dating someone he really liked. It just goes to show how immature men are at that age.

I did and I won't ever again. And i'll keep my reason why to myself, cause I don't think you really want people to answer that.

I think it's so sad that society makes people act the way they do. A fat man is not my type, but if I met someone and he was nice type of men, I might would give it a try.

i would date a fat women for sure

I will date a person I really like. Physical appearance is just one window to the personality, whereas a person has hundreds of such windows. If I like a person, enjoy being with her, am convinced with her maturity level and if we both can understand each other, then I'll date her for sure. Being fat doesn't count as much as how the person is. Moreover, physical state is liable to change with time, I mean a fat person can lose weight to look slim, or a slimmer (but wicked) person can put on weight with time, and suddenly, all the beauty is gone!!

Would you date a fat man or woman? Well to be honest with you, I would not date a fat man b/c that is not what turn me on. While I would be friends with him I would never put him on my list as far as having someone to get intimate with.

What a lot of people call fat is not fat, just a little bigger than normal. I don't like skinny men. I would rather see someone with some meat on their bones than look sick. For example I have read Jennifer Love-Hewitt was considered fat....what is wrong with people to me she is perfect. I believe women is to be curvy. What dog wants just a bone to bury in the back yard?

Hi,first of i want you to know that it doesn't matter what your size is.I mean not to sound offending if that person really like you or has the eye for you he wouldn't even care if he was seen dating a plus sized girl.My boyfriend is a plus sized guy too and not to mention I am a plus sized girl too.It depends on how you handle yourself at public.And not all plus sized people are unlikable in fact many men like plus sized girls because of those extra jiggles and their big heart.=)

I think in today's society appearances have a big influence to us. For me the most important is personality for years I still struggling to lose weight. Even if I losed weight 2 years ago still no one interested in me. Personality and attitude are most important than to be beautiful and having a good body. I think love is blind as long as you love someone wheather he is fat or thin it doesn't matter.

i have...the first guy i dated was way over weight...and i was pretty normal...but it didnt matter then coz i really liked him at that point in time...but he as it turned out he was simply taking me on a ride...and d relation went kaput pretty soon....neways....but that doesnt mean that all fat guys have to b thus....my bro-in-law is a big man...but he is very intelligent, lovable and very decent and he loves my sis a lot...hehehehe n now i am somewhere between being overweight and being too overweight....heheheheh....and my fiance (who is also my boyfriend and my best friend)...is a normal sized guy....but it doesnt matter to him i m not so normal sized...hehehehehhehe.....even though i m trying to lose weight (and failing due to lack of motivation and will power)....he always tells me "it doesnt matter what size u r....u dont have to do this if u r doing it for me....i love u just the way u r".......sigh!!!.....i love him too!!!! P.S- but yet i want to lose weight....pls will someone help!!!!

yes. why not! actually my boyfriend is fat and i found him very charming. he is huggable and i love pinching his bbig tummy. i call him baboy and his ok with that.

I would most definitely date a bigger guy (i dont like the word fat), and i have, many times before. I dont have anything at all against skinny guys. It's just that bigger guys are just what attracts me. I can't believe some people are so judgmental as to not like bigger people though. It's almost like racism, but with size, not color. Some people really disgust me, and it's not "fat" people.

I am also a big woman. I have always been big and it was very hard on me in school because every guy wanted a barbie doll on his arm. I had a lot of male friends but I did not actually have my first boyfriend until after I graduated high school.It seems that kids can be really cruel. As you get older it doesn't get much better. People are always looking at you funny because you are a size sixteen or larger. I have always stressed to my daughter that weight is not important. A person is not thier looks but much more. A person who has a good sense of humor and is smart and kind is more important that someone who looks good but acts bad. I have dated many men of all shapes and sizes. I got to know them before I judged wheather I liked them or not. I don't think that people should be judged on their looks. If more people would look deeper than just a persons exterior they might find their true love. I remember a guy that my cousin dated. He was so good looking that all the girls wanted to be his girl friend. My cousin dated him for only a short time because he was not a nice person. He made fun of others and he had a terrible temper. So you see just because they look good on the outside it is what is inside that is more important. It is a shame that people are so shallow.

My significant other has some extra pounds and believe me, he is huggable! Weight is not an issue for me as long as the individual is healthy. Your date is so cruel, he wasn't courageous enough to date you because of weight issues and I think that he doesn't want to be a laughingstock to his friends.

I would and I have dated a very large guy before. Back when I actually had a "figure". I was pretty small and he was large but I didnt care. I dont go for looks, they play a factor but personality is more important in my views. Now, after have 2 children and being pregnant for a 3rd time my once nice figure is now on the hefty size. I'm slowly loosing it (not while pregnant) so my husband doesnt complain. :) So yes I would date guys who are over weight because weight isnt important.

I guess in my case it depends exactly on your definition of fat. I don't mind dating a guy that is a little overweight - nothing that is considered close to being obsessed. But if you're talking about someone that obviously needs to start cutting back on the intake of food or whatever because health issues could start to be a concern then no I refuse to date them. For me though its not because of their looks and what not - instead its what being fat in my mind means. People today know what being overweight does to them mentally, physically, and emotionally - its just not healthy overall. Therefore having that in mind why would I date a person that doesn't care enough about themselves to lose the weight and stay in shape to have a better future? If you can't care for yourself - I don't see you being able to care for me. It's the same understanding that I use for other things like not dating a guy that doesn't have a job, owes a ton of money, has bad hygiene, etc.

Being fat for a girl is really a big downside for dating. To tell the truth, I would not date a fat girl. But this shouldn't discourage you. All you need to do is improve your human quality, while at the same time spending some time doing aerobics.

I once dated a fat girl, and I don't mean husky. I have noticed that a lot of fat people I've met have issues about themselves and attitude problems. I would not date a fat person ever again. I find healthy people to be attractive, and I don't see fat people as healthy.