what makes you say you love a person?
By Baron
@sambilay (171)
Philippines
April 29, 2009 11:53pm CST
do you love a person because he/she's rich? or because you need him/her? how about you?
5 responses
@janiceines (799)
• Singapore
30 Apr 09
love a person is no reason, but should not be because he's rich, that kind of love will not last long
@captainmorgan (773)
• Canada
30 Apr 09
I don't think you should love someone based on what they have, material wise. You have to love the person, their whole being. Not what they own, what they make, or what they do for you. Liking someone because they cater to your every need is not right. I love someone for how their mind works, and their heart. How they proccess the world and the people around them and how they handle certain situations. But sometimes you can't even say why you love someone, because it's just chemistry, and there are no reasons that you can speak outloud.
Not being with someone because they refuse to get a job, ect. is a little different because if the person does not have a job, they will not beable to support you or the household you two plan on living in. But this probably wouldn't cause you to fall out of love, only to back out of the relationship, or to not start a relationship in the first place.
@humairaabed (82)
• India
30 Apr 09
when i was in my teens money was one the most imp factor for me...but as i grew more mature...my priorities changed...
now i want to be wid sumone who will love me unconditionally, understands me, cares for me, sumone who makes me laugh/smile, sumone who is a one woman man, sumone wid whom i can b me...i agree u cant live on air or love alone...but then money isnt the ONLY thing in life...money is imp...and is a necessity...but planning life around it....i dont think thats a good thing....
I wud prefer to b wid a person i cant live widout rather than a person i can live wid...and sumone wid whose presence in my life makes my life beautiful...and worth living...its problems and all included...
And as impossible as it did seem to me...to meet sumone like this....given that almost the whole population nowadays is tooooo self-obsessed, too one night stand types, no commitments type...i must i m very lucky, praise be to God, that i found sumone just like i wanted and my happily engaged to him!!! hehehhehehehe