My autistic son can now escape his crib? He's not safe in a room by himself.
By mommaj
@mommaj (23112)
United States
April 30, 2009 5:38pm CST
My autistic son can now escape his crib. I don't feel he's safe in a room by himself. I have seen him interested in electrical outlets and with a room full of his toys and electrical outlets not to mention we don't shut his bedroom door so he will now be able to go through the house. What do I do? If you have autistic kids I'm interested in any suggestions. I am also not 100% sure how he is getting out. He may be climbing out.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
9 Jan 16
I think it's the same with any child who does that. I had those outlet covers put on all the outlets and some of them had safety outlets as well. As for the crib, well, a lower bed with a rail might be an answer. Or maybe a larger playpen where the sides are higher and he cannot get out. I know, this is an old post. But an interesting one.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
13 Jan 16
@mommaj A mind of his own. LOL. Sorry for laughing. He sounds like a kid that knows what he wants. I her you though. I would kidproof the house as well. You don't want nothing to happen to him or for him to get lost. That has to be hard to deal with.
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@vandana7 (100617)
• India
15 Jan 16
They climb...I saw my neighbor's kids climbing...anything that is climbable needs to be climbed. Children are great source of fun...if we see them correctly. Had a pile of cushions and the guy climbed what do you think was likely to happen...he fell..cried for a few minutes and then he was back to climbing sofa...
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
1 May 09
Have you tried a crib tent? They are supposed to prevent toddlers from climbing out of their crib. They cost around $70, by what I found online. I never tried it for either of my own kids, but it might just be the thing you're looking for.
Here's a link so you can read more information about it:
http://www.nextag.com/Tots-in-Mind-Crib-69978714/prices-html
I hope this helps!
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
1 May 09
Interesting. I never even heard of these. It is definitely something worth checking into. Thanks for the link and I am going to be looking into this. I'm not sure it will work if it attaches under the mattress. Yeah, he tries to tunnel his way out. lol. It's like having a puppy without the wet kisses. LOL
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
1 May 09
Yes I meant at night when normal people sleep and he doesn't. I can't really shut him in his room for overnight but I am considering it depending on what the doctor says and what the laws are. Honestly, no one can judge what they don't know. That goes double for lawmakers!
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
10 May 09
Have you looked into crib tents??? I used them with my trio and they stayed in their cribs till they were over three years old.
The fire department chief told me to turn their door knobs around and lock them in or to either get a baby gate and place it at their door so that they can not get out of their rooms. He suggested this because we live in a decent size house, we have three levels, and if something happened and they gout out of their rooms we might not be able to find them if there were an emergency. We did the baby gates thing.
Their other suggestion is go get one of those split doors. Where you lock the bottom part and can leave the top open.
Get safety plugs for the electrical outlets, I have a hard time removing them so your child will as well and remove all toys that are not safe.
Good luck
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
10 May 09
He's fascinated by safety plugs and pulls them out. The worst part is he will put them in his mouth. They are so small I am afraid he will swallow them. He climbed out of the crib for about a week and then he stopped. Thank goodness! Although, I should knock on wood. LOL. I am waiting to see what he's going to do next. It's always something with him.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
30 Apr 09
oh dear you have a job there, I do hope you can get some help or suggestions here, I thought autism could be regulated these days with medication, I thought it was one of the few things sciece had put under control, I wish you well with this...
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
1 May 09
Anything can be regulated with medicine but would you want to give a four year old sleeping pills? What if the dosage gets messed up? Worse since their bodies are different what if the dosage is wrong? Better yet because their bodies are different they may get hyper from the pills. Thanks for commenting and the well wishes.
@jimbelle (485)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
How old is he? It is not really safe to leave him alone in his room to be himself if he starts to be out in his crib. Just allow him to play toys that are safe. But if you notice they usually concentrate in one or two toys they like to play with. But they should'nt be away from your sight to keep him safe from danger.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
1 May 09
LOL. That's kinda my point. What do I do at night? I could sleep in there but he may land on me when climbing out of the crib. He doesn't sleep much at night and every room has electrical outlets. He can pull the covers out of them. In fact that is how he noticed the outlets. He decided to pull the covers off of them. My son is four years old physically but with his autism, cognitively he is between 13 and 18 months old.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
30 Apr 09
My cousin's son is 2 and he has been diagnosed as severely autistic. His room has not much in it, but a few toys and an Entertainment center. He still sleeps in a crib and has never tried to get out of it. To solve the door problem for when he is just in the room and not in his crib they cut the door in half. The top half of the door got taken off, so they can just look in and check on him. Since they are renting they have to replace the door before they move though.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
1 May 09
I am thinking of doing this to the door but it just has to be a better way. Besides if he is crawling over the crib he may try to pull himself over the door. Does two feet off the door seem like abuse when talking about keeping the door closed? If he can reach it to pull himself up he will because he is very strong. This is the first time he tried and succeeded getting out of his crib.