It is hard to find new friends in a new place

United States
May 1, 2009 9:26am CST
I just moved in to Dallas, Texas and I guess finding new friends is one of the hardest things. I am a social person, but I think finding friends will not be that easy as long as I do not have my own car, still unemployed and most of my going out is with my husband only. But, I am hopeful that one day I will have a plenty of friends. It just needs time.
6 responses
@earnnings (1325)
• India
1 May 09
you can make friends by online network community ..you can search friends in your area and start making friendship and make an appointment some day ..meet them..slowly you can build your network ...making friends is not hard but getting trusty and honest friends is very hard buddy...we can make friendship easily with strangers but we may not judge their friendship unless we spend sometime with them...thats all make friends and i want you to advice that make friends but honest ones..happy friendship with you..keep smiling and keep mylotting :)
• United States
1 May 09
It is true. It might take years before you know who your real friend is.
@ralphido (842)
• India
1 May 09
well. i guess you already got a best friend in your husband.. everything else will fall in place soon enough.. don't worry..for starters,.. even though you can't see me,hear me or touch me.. you can think of me as your friend.. enjoy mylotting..;)
• United States
1 May 09
Thank you my first "myLot" friend. Your words are so encouraging.
• Philippines
2 May 09
Not really. Just be yourself and show them what you really are. Don't be pessimistic that they won't like you. Try it first before making any judgement. I know they are thinking the same way as you thinking of other people.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
1 May 09
Yes, it is.. but i am sure you're going to find new set of friends in no time.. when i have moved in to a new place(condominium), i didn't have friends for a year but it's okay.. i can live a life without friends around me.. what important to me is my family and hubby.. you know, friends come and go.. i don't believe in friends forever.. i got fed up with people who are trying to be nice to me because they needed something from me..
• United States
1 May 09
I think friends forever was something from the past. But I still believe that there are people who are trustworthy and can keep a secret and care for you. That is what I am looking for.
• India
4 May 09
yes if we go at the another place for live we can't face the there situation here were we live there was our friend live and we will take help of her . and in new cities were we will unknow from other we have not remember the place and first we have very difficulty to find the new and good friend . our new friend was not there then our time was not gone and our life time pass good and help us that was our friend.
• India
4 May 09
yes you are right it was very heard to find a new friend in any other new place