how do you think of love and marriage

@cindyhxf (1446)
China
May 1, 2009 12:04pm CST
i heard people always say marriage is the tomb of love.i don't hope all people think like that.my lotters,do you have happy marriage life and really enjoy your love wiht your spouse?how do you think of relationship between love and marriage?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 May 09
I heard that peoples say that marriage is a cure of love. Of course is a joke only. I am divorced so, maybe i am not the best to give advices, but i know that is very good to marry with somebody only you love him or she. All can be fixed if exist love in a marriage, if don t exist nothing work. I n a relation all time must to be 2 persons, this is sure, they must love each other egual, if one love more...all is not good, and step by step relation will broke. To be married with person who you love can be heaven, life in 2 is the best...but this step, to merry i mean must to be done only if they love each other very much.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
2 May 09
i agree with your point ,friend.i am divorced too.but now i have a male friend who wanted to just love me and won't go to marriage,i don't think i will accept that.best wishes
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 May 09
you know that sometimes to give advices in this kind of situations is not very good, because love story are different, but i am sure that you will choice better
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
2 May 09
I love being in love, I am single and i think I prefer it that way, I see my married friends and the way they speak to each other and I think no I couldn't handle that, maybe i am a romantic but I like love to be on my terms and not be tied down to it because of a piece of paper....i guess i also like to be free.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
2 May 09
yes,you are right,someone want to be single all their life.that is choise and what they really want.someone want to be marriage and have good family life with kids and spouses i think i am the type of marriage people.i am afraid of single life .anyway ,good luck and be happy ,lilaclady.thanks for response.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
2 May 09
As we are socialized person we need to get marry to stay with this social because we can not live alone whole life and we should not compare love with marriage because love is always there before marriage and also after marriage but love stay always with the person may be increased or decreased due to other works
• India
2 May 09
marriage is get succesful after love hape at old tradition there was not happen, first our parents will marriage us then that couple will make well understanding then his life was gone good and in both of them making love at each other . before marriage love is so good they will live free , and after marriage there was some responsible come so .