BEST FRIEND... 15 im 18

I would definatly stay away from the older one, she sounds like she has more problems than you really want to deal with. As for the younger one, I would be careful because where I am at it is legal for a 15 and an 18 year old to date but her parents could cause major problems, and so could she if you did become physical and then break up. Good luck with it.

Hi msgod, well if i was you, i wont even consider the elder girl. She is not a long term prospect. If you are looking for physical pleasures only then it is different but if you wast some real relationship going then go for the second one. The elder one is 20 married and ready for divorce, already has a bf and going with you too. wow.. i dont think she would stick with you at all more than she would need to. so steer clear of her.

Hey i adviced you to stay away from them,both. 15, she is very young. She must be really curious about everything and like you want to explore but please don't bother to entertain her. Just be there for her as an older brother. 20, has a lot of excess baggage, stay away from her if you don't want a severe headache. Kindly live in peace and look for a girl that is for you, there are many out there. Explore, in a good way.

if you don 't want to lose your best friend then date her. if trouble is what you're chasing for then go for it. but the face that she's getting a divorce does say a lot and im not judging people with divorces but just make sure she doesn't changes and when you suddenly realize its your best friend that you want it'll all be too late. you've been with your best friend for 3years, she knows you, and you know her, you guys have sat out the stormy whether together and been through all sorts of things. maybe now's the time where you test your friendship? should you go on or not? its entirely up to you. but in my opinion, i would go for the 15 years old because if she was my best friend, i know I'd love her. if she was my best friend i know she'd stay by my side no matter what. good luck and god bless. cheers mate.

well my friend, i think that you have the 100% power to decide who'll you choose. and we could only give advices to you. and here's my advice to you my friend. first of all, i think that the one you love, which is the older one, is a bit of a problem for you because, she's married, she has a boyfriend, you and her are together. and that's just so messed up. and about the younger one, she's 15 and you're 18, you can talk to her and ask her why did she do it and clear things up. you're 3 years older than her so i'm pretty sure you could solve this one. good luck to you! and happy earning!

You are weaving a rather dangerous web for yourself if you'll go with the married woman. Life is good, don't complicate things, you're still young there are lots of women out there available and has no complications. You don't need to deal with unnecessary problems. Find yourself another girl who will really love you and take care of you. The younger girl, im not sure, things change as girls grow up. You need to wait it up to be sure. Don't be in a hurry, enjoy your life... It's not like you only have 24 hours left to live. But if you want an exciting life, go ahead and experience it. But don't ever cry wallowing in your loss if things work out worse. We really don't know what lies ahead but we can always control how we steer our own wheels so we could reach our own destination. You can always control the outcome. Focus and you'll know what you really want.

I feel for you, looks like you need a word of advice and caution. First off, you have a bunch of questions to ask yourself. You are at a stage in life that well, frankly is a time to explore and enjoy. You have been friends with the young lady for 3 years, so you know her and you have a comfort level with her. But, to be honest, it sounds like you just want to be friends at this point. Sure a kiss that knocks your socks off, but what kind of relationship are you looking for? For one, she is a bit young for "other events" and frankly, I wouldn't suggest that level of a relationship with her at this time. She still needs to grow and mature. To many girls are getting involved way to young in that manner and there are a lot of problems already going on with that. Depending on where you live, you don't want to have to deal with a potential problem. Given that you are 18 and of legal age to be considered an adult, she isn't. So I would honestly, keep the younger one as merely a friend at this stage. Next, okay, you really care about the 20 year old, she does have a lot of baggage and issues going on there. Adding you to the mix, would frankly not be good at this time in her life or yours. If you don't know the stability of her husband or the other boyfriend. Be a friend and no more than that, be an ear for her to vent to. "There are lots of fish in the sea" You obviously can reel them in. For now, I would say, you need to take time to explore what you are looking for in a girlfriend. If you have to, make a list. Write down the pros and the cons. Sometimes if you see it in writing, everything will become more clear to you. You sound like a great guy. I wouldn't want you hurt to be honest. While going through your exploration, you may want to talk to the younger friend, she could be just as confused as you are about the kiss that happened. If she is communicate your concerns and tell her how uncertain you are. Be open about it. With the other, again explore the situation, to be honest, she has enough on her plate, being a friend is one thing, but...... let the rest go for now. She needs to get her life in order. You need to let her know that you do have feeling and will be there as a friend if she needs you, but at this time no more than that. If she is also a friend, she will understand. Now, work on you a little more, what do you want in a girlfriend? Are you ready for a relationship? You never know, you may know a girl that is in your life that thinks you don't think she exists and is hoping you will see her. I wish you luck. I'm here if you want to chat. Just a friend who has sort have been in your situation. I was the girl though.... I had baggage.... I resolved what I needed to and found myself in some aspects in the long run. The guy, well, we are still friends and talk pretty regularly.

Take time, and a deep breath. There is no law that says you have to decide straight away. I would sugest the older one is not the way you want to go, from past experiences. I would be wary of the younger girls age. Be careful and weigh up your options, do you really HAVE to go out with any of them? Would it be best to wait? Is your life at the moment too busy and changable to allow a girlfriend? Would it be fair on the younger girl? Does the older girl REALLY have YOUR best interests at heart?

i also hav a best friend.i like and dislike his behaviours.but still he is my best friend because he is the most intimate friend of mine.we have been friends for a short while now ,and i just want to say thank you for being there in times of hardness.i know you more than i know anybody else and i am so glad that we started hanging together.lately,i have been thinking about the way that we always compete with eachother and its really starting to get to me.i know that it's not always intentional,but it just seemslike you enjoy getting into those little arguements that we seem to almost always come across.you and i have a lot of the same personality traits,yet we also seem like totally different at times.you are really a funny,grazy,bit maddy guy that's why i like to hang out with you.but sometimes u make me angry doing different irritating things.but our friendship is very good.and it will remain for a long time it will not break.