Everything back to our self
By deddy_irawan
@deddy_irawan (144)
Indonesia
May 1, 2009 4:39pm CST
I'm 30 years old and i learn something important in my relationships, what i was negative thinking about somebody, usually that mind is reflection of my self. Example, if i "think" my girl was lying to me, it means i often lies before her.
How do you think my friend? Do you agree with me?
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3 responses
@kurniawanSurvey (140)
• Indonesia
2 May 09
not really... I'm the type who put too much trust on the others and always blaming myself first when anything happens, it's not a bad thing in my perception, it gives me a clear mind to analyze the situation better. and besides I've never lied (hide the truth not counted as lie right ?), ok that was a joke, but really when it's coming to something important I've never lied, at least now, I've learns that lied only bring you to more deeper problem, so if it about something important I will not lied.
@deddy_irawan (144)
• Indonesia
2 May 09
I think it depending on the situation, the truth not always make better if we don't know the right time to say it. So, wise to choose the right time.
@larish (2239)
• Philippines
2 May 09
Yes, I agree with you. I had this ex boyfriend who are very jealous with my male friends. Just to pacify him, I let go of my friends. Meaning I seldom attend to our get together just to give this ex boyfriend peace of mind and would only go out with female friends. I don't like the idea but I love him so much. Then after two years of being in this relationship, I caught him hooking up with one of his female friends. lol. I am now laughing at it because it is already in the past. I should have known it sooner the first time he was so jealous with my male friends. lol.
@deddy_irawan (144)
• Indonesia
2 May 09
Sorry for that, hope that thing can be a lesson for us to make the future better. All criminal act has criminal minds.
If we want somebody love us, make we love our self first.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 May 09
Not always, I think it might depend on the other person, I think an inner voice can warn you about other people, I believe it to be a spiritual type warning system we all have but then I guess in some cases it can be because we ourselves perhaps can't be trusted in some areas and we think others are the same.
