love hurts?

@sarcasms (120)
India
May 2, 2009 12:07pm CST
hey im a college student and im in love with a girl i feel that being in love she is taking advantage of me as she does not love me back thou i know the relationship is not beneficial for me but i just cant seem to leave her wat shuld i do to get over her?
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7 responses
shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
2 May 09
hai there, love makes life live long. if u are not satisfied then give up her bcoz one sided love is not survivable. be lover with a perfact hand.good night.
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sarcasms
@sarcasms (120)
• India
2 May 09
thanks for ur reply shibham...gdnite
pickwick
@pickwick (858)
• India
5 May 09
Hi Sarcasms! I am sorry to say that you dont really love that girl.If you loved her you wont expect anything from her and will keeep on loving her whether she reciprocates or not.If you feel this sort of love is going to hurt you then its better to get her out of mind or woo her with something that might work.
pickwick
@pickwick (858)
• India
6 May 09
Then the feeling which you have is called infatuation.Dont worry,we all have undergone it an it soon fades off.Wait till you meet someone really nice and wonderful.
teto300tareq
@teto300tareq (10)
• France
6 May 09
befor falling in love we must understand the real meanning of love
sarcasms
@sarcasms (120)
• India
6 May 09
u might be right.........but i do love her and i dont expect anything frm her i just dont want her to use me ........... but my frnds ,ppl tell me that such kind of things happen so thats why this thing came into my head and smtimes her behaviour forces me to think this way............
krayzietam
@krayzietam (832)
• United States
2 May 09
You just need to take time out and deal with yourself first. You need to realize that she isn't good for you and will only continue to hurt your feelings because she doesn't feel the same way about you the way you feel about her. I recommend that you hang out with some friends, meet some other people, and go out more. That way you will be having fun and in no time hardly think about her anymore.
sarcasms
@sarcasms (120)
• India
2 May 09
ive kind of tried evrything...hangin out with frndsmeeting othr ppl but shes always stays on my mind cant keep it off her.....and she also shws her affection according to her liking wen she wants smthng...........
hanah87
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
4 May 09
i think you should leave her.One day she will leave you because you know she not really love you.And that's time you will be hurt...
Ritchelle
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
4 May 09
just think that we get anything we deserve. if you don't view yourself with respect then you'd get a girl who doesn't and wouldn't treat you with any respect at all. peace.
sarcasms
@sarcasms (120)
• India
6 May 09
absolutetly right thanks fr the advice.......
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born1989
@born1989 (177)
• India
4 May 09
this is a very dicey situation. see frankly speaking when she doesn't love you the way you do, i guess it's all over for u. try & understand the fact. just forget her & move on.
chimrani
@chimrani (1426)
• India
2 May 09
[b]Friend if she doesn't love you and don't care about you feelings then my advice is leave her and select a good girlfriend that loves you and care you. If you till love her and want to become good friends then i suggest you to wear style dress,go college on bike,spend some money and give chocolates to her. I really say girls love this type of things and she really loves you.[/b]