Was it accident or planned?

My first child was planned and when I found out I was so happy, now she is three years old and she is my whole life. Well if it was planned I will never abort since having a child is the best thing to have in the world. I think that you should be responsible for yourself if you don't want children, there is no way to go back, you cannot just abort if you don't want a child.

I had met a wonderful man in Australia during my trip around the world. He came over to the my home country and we got engaged. We weren't planning it but I got pregnant. I wanted my baby and got the home birth I so very much wanted. My marriage lasted six years. We got divorced and my ex-husband moved back to Australia. Years later I began another relationship and had another surprise pregnancy. He moved into my home when we had the sad news at 36 weeks that my baby has spina bifida. My second baby was born at home and then spent 3 weeks in a special care baby unit. I was thinking of having another baby to see if I could get a daughter but way before I began trying I got my current pregnancy. I am so looking forward to my baby girl being born in 8 weeks time.