Courtship Thru Texting
By reckon21
@reckon21 (3479)
Philippines
May 3, 2009 10:44am CST
Many of my friends enjoyed having text mates.But sad to say guys now a days did not
value the essence of respect in courting a girl or a woman.They court the woman
through text messages and they want immediate answer as soon as possible.Would you
believe courtship through text only?Why not do it in a right way?Say i love you to
the woman you love personally.
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3 responses
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
7 May 09
I think it's a stupid thing that people actually court through sending SMS. I know that it's a good thing that you let the girl know that you want constant communication and that really do seem sweet but for girls, they should realize that it's not enough. I have seen people fall for someone whom they have never even met. Not even through meeting via webcam - solely through text messages. I don't think those people are truly in love with the actual person, only to an imaginary person they came up based on their interpretation of text messages.
I do believe text messages are a good tool for courtship. It's sometimes even a place for singles to meet and mingle, but it is not courtship in itself.
I hope that people would have more courage to say that they love the other person personally. It shows character.
Thanks for the response on my discussion!
@tinonzo (67)
• Philippines
4 May 09
I agree. This whole thing is absurd but sadly, it is happening. It makes the whole idea of courtship impersonal and a joke.
Personally, I wouldn't consider responding to those kind of texts, unless I am bored of course. But I would not take it seriously