Do you trust all your friends?
By med889
@med889 (5941)
May 4, 2009 1:26am CST
I got many friends but I have to admit that I do not trust all of them . There are a few amoung that I trust a lot and I can share many secrets with them but still I tend to be rather on the safe side and don't trust all of them. So do you trust all your friends?
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14 responses
@strawberrybaby39 (2086)
• United States
5 May 09
Know I don,t trust all my friends. Some I do some I don,t. A couple of my best friends live very far from me and I never get to see them.
@strawberrybaby39 (2086)
• United States
13 May 09
People can have some very good friends on the internet to. I finally got to talk to one of my good friends the other day. And glad to hear she is doing well. But she cries because she never gets to see her brother even though they are both grown up and live a distance from each other. Her brothers wife don't allow him to see his sister or his mom. Witch I think is very wrong. They have always been a close family till he married that women.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 May 09
Dear friend,
I do trust friends and also others provided they are justifiable reasons in their approach or in their behaviour to make me believe it is true or they are trustworthy. But at times I had beeen cheated also, which for next time I would avoid not fall in cheating friends or people. Hence I do trust according the judgemetn I make myself on others. It entirely depend my ability to judge a person's trustworthyness. 
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
13 May 09
Hi friend, I have many good and close circle of friends but to tell you the truth,I trust only few of them when it comes to sharing secrets.They are good but I cannot trust them 100%.Moreover,why to tell your secrets to everybody?..Secrets are meant to be kept hidden right..otherwise it won't be secret anymore, lol!Have a nice day!
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
12 May 09
No, i don't trust some of my friends. Some of my friends already betrayed me before but still i have forgiven them because i know i won't be able to find friends like them. I mean sometimes friends make mistakes so i have already anticipated that it will really happen. So far, we're ok now and we're still hanging out from time to time but i don't really divulge some sensitive secrets to some of them anymore because i can't afford to be betrayed by them again. I'd rather keep it to myself.
@med889 (5941)
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13 May 09
When someone has come across a betrayal by a friend it is very difficult to start trusting someone again in your life, I had a friend in college whi betrayed me and I was very sad I just wanted to avoid everyone and then gradually I started talking to others but till today I have only few friends on whom I can place my trust.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 May 09
I used to be a very trusting person, I always trusted people until they gave me reason not to but after being let down or should I say stabbed in the heart a couple of times by friends I thought of as family I no longer trust anyone 100%, I think human nature has weaknesses that none of us can control so I never trust completely.
@chandana1 (56)
• India
4 May 09
"FRIENDS" the word itself is a boon. Because in the world we cant find people without friends. Really they help us like anything but we have to be careful while selecting friends because all of them whom we meet may not become our friends and there are chances to get cheated by them.Even i have many friends but i only trust and share everything with only few of them who are my best friends. Just simply trusting everyone is not at all good. So friends be careful while judging and select the best ones.
@Kenntoy (20)
• United States
6 May 09
I am also not very trusting, i had a so called friend that slept with some one that i was dating, i wasn't really in to him, but she didn't know that.
This was a friend that I've known since i was 10 years old, since then i have had a hard time trusting any one.
Your definitely not alone on that subject.
@ruedestiny (16)
• Philippines
4 May 09
Yes having many friends is the best and knowing them deeper is better. I also got much friends cause we all share the same likes and dislikes. Some of my friends seems to be not trust worthy cause they are greedy when it comes with money. It's alright not to trust too much, know your limitation and their limitation as well. Trusting too much may only lead you to distruction.
@jayantrow (8)
• India
4 May 09
If you cannot trust a person, you also cannot classify him as your friend. He or she could be just an acquaintance. Friends are those with whom you can be just yourself. Trusting others also needs that you instill the same trust in them. Have you behaved with your friends in such a way that they feel that they can depend on you.
