Your life is not better than your friends-what you feel?

Not true in all cases….life is somewhat like a half full glass of water…depends on which way you want to look at it and even then, both are true. Yes, many of my friends have done much much better than me in many fields and I am lagging behind them with no hope ever of reaching their level. If ever I meet them, I feel ashamed as they brag about themselves and make me feel all the more inferior. But I have also done better than many of my other friends who are not at all satisfied with their own conditions. So all in all, stop comparing and evaluate your positive qualities and work on them for your betterment. Each individual is different and our qualities and drawbacks are different too.

I think such a comparision shouldn't exist among friends. When your life is difficult, it's your friends who will help you but not make you feel ashamed. Otherwise, the day you get better life, you won't have many people "to face".

Hi friend,I never compare my life with others.Our life is not in our hands.We have to face our life as it comes.There is no need to feel ashamed atall.But there is nothing wrong in thriving hard to reach our goal and improve our well being.But sometimes even when we work hard we cant achieve our goal and we would face difficulties ,for that we needn't feel ashamed atall.Each our lives are different and we should accept it.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

Don't ever think that. everyone's life is unique and it remains the way it is. never compare yourself with some one. for you to grow in life compare your state at different time. compare your style yesterday with that of today's and try to work hard and make every possible thing to make yourself better. that automatically makes you remain better than your friend.

I feel jealous sometimes when his life is going good and my is bad. But its ok we have each other

If your life has not been better compared than your friends, it doesn't matter - as long as you live a straight life. Destiny of each person differs from on another. Looking in the past years of your life, some other people's life has been good and some were not. Try to look at their current life that they live now, you will see that something has developed - some developed a better lifestyle compared than before, and some whose life seems to be so good a few times (or years) back may have not been living the same life now... some may have got worst. Life is just like a cycle of wheel, sometimes where on top, sometimes not. Wherever we are, it is because we have chosen to be in that situation - whether its good or bad, its our choice. We make our own destiny. Remember that only 10% of our life is contributed by the people that sorrounds us. The 90% of what's going on with our life depends on how we react on the former 10% mentioned ahead. Cheers! Archie69 Increase your earning, join me here for FREE: http://tinyurl.com/csj4oo