what are the signs of being inlove?
By Lels lels
@mayeenella (107)
Afghanistan
May 4, 2009 8:27am CST
Hi! I just came up with this childish question of mine. LOL I have been into several relationships they all lasted for years. I'm just wondering. How will I know if it is the right person or not? How can I distinguish what's fraud guys and the real ones? soulmates, are they real? Do you have to consult you parents of the guy you want to be with?
PS. COMMENTATORS DO NOT ANSWER ME WITH "FINISH YOUR STUDIES FIRST!" YOU DONT HAVE TO LECTURE ME. THIS IS A GENERAL QUESTION THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
4 responses
@gongchhua (272)
• China
5 May 09
Hi, I think the signs of being inlove consist of familarity, a happy feeling, being cared and so on. You can get love from the guy. He has a comprehensive mind and can contain everything. You feel happy and safe with him. When you are not with him, he will give you a call or send short message to you for ensuring you are safe and happy. When you feel sad, he will make you happy. The two people who are inlove should respect each other. Then, you can get well along with each other.
@ann168 (111)
• United States
5 May 09
Hi Mayeenella,There are lots of signs to let know that you have found the right person for you. You feel comfortable when you are with that person. Before you say anything the other person already understood what you mean.You laugh a lot with that person. You feel safe and are at peace with that person. You feel like the other person is your other half. Without his presence, you feel lost. When you are with him you feel completed. That's how you found your soul mate.
@viga01 (28)
• United States
4 May 09
Well, I have the most cliched response in the world to this one.
"You'll just know."
The second I met my husband, I knew he was the one for me.
The difference between him and every other man I ever got heart palpitations over was that I spent not one single second, EVER, questioning whether or not he was right for me, or what his real intentions were. I just knew.
If you have to question it, than it's not right.
@farmerbrown (54)
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4 May 09
First of all this is no childish question... I think everyone has asked themselves this question more than once in their time.
I think everyone has different reasons for realising that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. And until I met my husband I was always asking myself this (usually after a breakup).
The truth is there is no answer that is the same. When you meet that person you just know deep down inside that this is the person that makes you happy and you are completly in love.
I met my husband through facebook and we only dated for 2 months before getting engaged. Some people thought we were crazy but they soon realized that we were in love and we knew what we wanted.
When you meet that person, trust me you will know. Until then just have fun and enjoy life!