When it seems others ignore you!!!!!
By BYOLA2871
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
South Africa
May 4, 2009 8:36am CST
For some time now I have really not been very active on mylot for the fact that I have been so busy I did not have enough time to do my research for my postings, because I hate just making posts that have no positive impact on members, as much as I hate to see such posts here, so I felt within me that some of my friends here might think I am ignoring them by not responding to their postings but I want to make it clear that I am not doing anything of such nature its just that, circumstances have made my time so short that I had to spend less time on the site, but I intend to get back and do more response in the next one month and possibly find my feet again in to my research for quality posts. In case you feel ignored so sorry, I will make it up to you guys.
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10 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
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16 May 09
No problems, my friend. I think a lot of us are busy at this time of the year, including me. I've gotten right behind again this month, merely because I've had a lot to do in my waking life. Hopefully, I shall find some time to relax during the summer months... that's a laugh, eh? lol.
Brightest Blessings.
@liucheng623 (121)
• China
5 May 09
i am ignored too.i can't help to complain.no one respose my discussions.i feel hurt.many people have the same feelings when they come here early.what can we do?i don't know.but we should be more active.i am a new comer too.all i can do is to respose others discussions to improve my input skills and english standard.i have resposed so many discussions.but only a few is counted.maybe we can make friends.if we have many friends,we can care each more.we can help each.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
5 May 09
Oh okay! This can happen and sometime I also feel that my friends are ignoring me for a second but the next second I think of incraesing quality of my discussion. I mean we should draw a line a little bit longer than others did, our lines would become automatically the longest available.
Belive if I was in your friends list, I would have never gone mad at you, but at me!
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
5 May 09
For me I do not care whether others respond or not with my comments and discussions I started. I only care to respond when I have the time and when I feel like responding. We all have different moods, sometimes we are very energetic to respond and sometimes we feel lazy. I like to respond when I have different or opposing views. I also love to agree when the member who agreed with me expressed nice points. I like being in an argument but educational and not offending one. Anyway I guess you need not to apologize when you were not able to respond to them because you own your time and you own your ideas.
@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
5 May 09
Hm...for me, it'll be ok, it doesnt matter at all too. Understood that everyone has his or her own business or work to do everyday. So, let's just take it easy. As long as your friends remembers you, and have some posting or feedback for you once in a while, it'll be satisfactory enough i thnkk. Enjoy life, enjoy myLotting! :)
@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
4 May 09
I wish more people would do their research. I have seen too many cut and paste posts and they don't respond to comments you make. One person had 50 posts in one section just pasting news stories from on line.
Welcome back and I look forward to seeing some of your psots.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
4 May 09
This is completely understandable. I also do this most of the time. I have my work to do and usually would not be able to post and reply to discussions most of the time. But when I am free, I make up for the lost time. I do enjoy it here and this is the reason why I do come back from time to time.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
4 May 09
If you do research or hard work on mylot I can understand that you would want to take some time off or would need to because of other things that make you busy. Of course it's hard to find quality posts and getting annoyed at mylot can cause people to want to leave for a while. I hope you can come back and share with us your quality posts, who knows you may have very much to say, more then you can handle, and that will make up for earnings you haven't made, or friends you haven't talked to here.
Have a wonderful break, and happy day!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 May 09
Hi there, Your grudging for quality post is justified. It so happened with me that I want to write some good response but there are no worth responding post, so i pull my self back and wit for another day. to be true have responded to too silly discussion at times.
But one thing I have not done in my short life here so far that I have never let anyone feel ignored however though I have been subjected to, but ironically without my knowledge as to who has done this.
If i know that I have been ignored by a well known user here I would just ignore and would give him/her another chance and if that too got same treatment I would never go there. If you are a king I am not less than you and therefore treat me with the kingly gesture.
