My Kids
By denisedora
@denisedora (190)
United States
May 4, 2009 11:03pm CST
Ok, today went well it was a nice day here in cali. That was until about 5pm this evening. I was sitting in my living room with my fiance' and a friend of mine. I heard a woman yell "shut up" of course my dog was barking and so I figured she as takin to her since she barks at everything including her own shadow. So I get up to go tell her to be quiet, and this woman is at my gate, when I opened the sreen door, she started yelling "your kids are in hte back over here throwing rocks at my friends sons trailer, they are throwing rocks and they broke the windows in the trailer, I saw them doing it all four of them" I did not say anything thinking this chick is crazy for yelling at me. Now my children two boys 11 & 5 and two girls 7 & 4, are standing on my porch scared to death as they should have been lol. I send the three youngest the gurls and the boy into the house and bring my oldest son 11 to the back yard. By this time my fiance' and I are walking to the back yard and my firend is at the door way wondering what all they yellling is about. We go outside and walk to the trailer, which belongs to the man that used to live there and we talked to him all the time he was very nice. Any way we get to the back yard and sure enough there are broken windows on this trailer. Now the woman has gone to her mail box and was on her way back there in her yard. She went in the house dropped off the mail and came back outside. My fiance' and I are now asking my son what they were thinking, why they were throwing rocks, who all was throwing rocks he admitted they all were and they thought it was fun at the time. Well here comes the crazy chick, yelling her fool a@@ off again. Now she starts to cuss at me which really pissed me off but I did not cuss back. I let her finish telling me that my f'ing kids are unrully and that I need to handle my f'ing kids and that they broke the f'ing Even her neighbor who lives in the front she live inthe back house was telling her to be quiet lol. So when she finished I said "first of all you have no business yellng at me and disrespecting me at my house. Now if there isa problem about my kids then grow up and be a woman and talk to me instead of yelling and cussing at me infornt of my child. She again ya you guessed it started yelling, and cussing "you need to handle your f'ing children they are back her breaking sh%$ you need to handle your f'ing kids. I said I have no problem fixing the the windows and she yells when they break these windows over here are you gonna fix them too??? wtf this bit%* is nuts lol She proceeds to say that "tiffany" no clue who that is, has caught all four of them trying to break into here house. again see notation above my kids are 11, 7, 5,4. they tried to break into her house????????? Um ok. so i said well if she has all these issues she should have said something to me she could have come to me, she said because she did not want to have and f'ing issues with you. I was like ok well i have never talked to "tiffany" before and i have no idea who she is lol but ok then. So then was nice enough to flip me off walk away saying f u and went into the house and slammed the door.
So with all the drama being said, I went into the house and talked tomy fiance' and we are waiting to see Forrest who is the man that was there before and the owner of the trailer so we can talk to him and make arrangements to fix the windows, and let my kids know they are grounded until further notice and no outside for a while.
So tell me what you think about this eventful evening did i handle this wrong??? Man I wanted to cuss her*&^ the hell out lol but luck for her my son was here to save her.
2 responses
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
7 May 09
Unfortuantly idiots will be idiots and you will encounter them from time to time. You handled things as they should have been handled. She was the retard to go over the top by using foul language to you and your child. I myself would have said, I'll handle things and walk off, I myself, am usually pretty outspoken and will put people like this women in their place, and sometimes it's not very pretty, but when my kids are around, I hold my head up and just bite the bullet and show them it's not good to agrue, because arguing never accomplishes anything.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
5 May 09
I think that you handled the situation quite well. Give yourself a pat on the back for holding your tingue and remaining calm! I am not so sure that I could have done the same. My kids are pretty close in age to yours. They are 11, 8, 6, and 4 and believe me, thay have pulled some good ones. I have always been able to hold my tongue when I needed to, but just as you said, I would have loved to relatiate.
I hope that you are able to get it all resolved without any more from her. The next time, if there is one, that she comes to your door, I would sit at the window and wave at her until she leaves!
@denisedora (190)
• United States
5 May 09
wave at the wondow til she leaves lmao that funny. Ya it was nuts i could not believe a grown woman acted like that it was unrealistic