do you wish more people knew how serious autism really is?
By Breelyn
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
United States
May 5, 2009 12:16am CST
Hello fellow mylotters :) I do not have any children or relatives with autism but i was a teaching assistant for the special education in my high school for over 2 years and that experience changed my life, it was the most rewarding experience i have ever had. Since then when i share with my friends and family some of my memories and i still have a couple of friends from the special ed department (one has cerebral palsy,one has down syndrome, and one has autism)....... but some of my friends, family and just random people i meet seem to still think that autism is still very rare. This upsets me because in my high school we actually had a special program just for autistic children, so say out of 50 children with special needs (any type of special needs beyond a learning disorder) about 15 had autism/"autistic tendencies"...thats a huge number since its ONLY ONE type of disorder, and sadly about half of the 15 were extreme cases who would hurt themselves and/ or were unable to communicate verbally... do any of you face people who don't realize how much of an urgent matter its becoming? What do you say to these people if they don't realize? One thing that i have told all of the people who dont realize how huge this problem is, the biggest figure for autism in their brain is "the Rainman" and i try to educate them about all the different types of autistics and that EVERYONE should be educated and wanting to change the possible epidimic because you never know if it could be your child
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
5 May 09
yes people, a majority of them still do not know hwat autism is and there are still a majority who are still very prejudice of autistic people and finds them abnormal which in my case they are not...
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@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
5 May 09
I know exactly what you mean, many of my friends get mad when i invite my autistic friend Mike to my get togethers or parties because they say he "weirds them out" because he is extremely orderly and it comforts him sometimes to say the same thing after a question, even if its not towards him like he will say "whats your answer?" if its toward someone else, if its towards him he will say "whats my answer?" and he does this every single question,,,,,my friends get annoyed but i understand that it makes him feel more comfortable in a social situation....just like you said, my friends see him as abnormal but i get why he is the way he is
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
6 May 09
yes, they need to be understood for them to be able to understand their environment and be able to live a normal life, because if people will continue to shut them out from the community or the real life, they will eventually be more hostile. People should learn how to act and deal with autistic people and learn to help them get through life.
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@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
7 May 09
spicey have you told your friends he is Autistic? Have you explained the disorder to them? If you have & they still feel he is weird & so on, then that is ignorance on your friends part & it's people like that, that make it harder for us all.
Tell them to educate themself first, then they can come hang out with you & your friend.
Someone has to stand up for Autism!
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@kamimatsu (26)
• United States
10 Aug 09
Autism is not a disease. It is merely a different way of thinking. I am autistic and believe it to be the best thing to happen to me. While I am unable to communicate with "normals". I have been working on that. I hope to continue to show the world just how wonderful aspergers can be.
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@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
10 Aug 09
Thank you for responding :) and I agree with you, I even feel bad when I say that it is a disorder, my friend who is Autistic is one of my best friends, he and I have known each other for years, and at first, he really didn't like me because he would have rather not talked to anyone, but after a lot of time and "breaking down the walls" so to speak, we are very close and he is one of my favorite people BECAUSE he is not like everybody else, so please go on and feel proud of who you are, and its so great that you are striving to communicate with people, because that is the best way for people to understand Autism and embrace people with it, no matter how "different" in thinking they may be
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@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
7 May 09
I agree, but at times I'm just tired of explaining this to people.
But it's true, so many people out there don't even know what Autism is & some have heard about it, but don't know enough about it.
It makes me angry, but then I look back & when I was working with children before I had kids of my own, I now realize that I never knew what Autism was either & now that I think about it, that one child I worked with that drove me crazy & how I swore the reason he wasn't talking was because he disliked me. I always wondered why he would laugh when I told him no or something down that line.
In the end I had that child removed from my class. The mother told us every place she goes to, they kick her son out of the program & she asked for our help, but the school ended up turning her down & not giving her any resource to turn to.
Autism never came up, because me & my whole staff probably didn't have a clue what Autism was...
Now that I have a child with Autism... I see that little boy in my son & I feel really bad.
I was only 17-18 when working at this school, but I feel that all daycare workers, teachers should know what Autism is & that there should be some kind of class for the workers so they can learn about Autism, the good & the not so good. That way the teachers can spot it out & instead of calling that child bad or kicking that child out of the program, we could offer a helping hand to the parents & give hope.
My point here is that I think your right... people need to know how serious it is & they should even start having a speaker come to schools & educate the younger kids about Autism.
I would of known the signs of Autism & about Autism sooner if they made it mandatory that all school teachers, daycare workers take some kind of class to learn about Autism...
I'm all for awareness & I now spread it daily....
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@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
16 Aug 09
One problem that we have had with my autistic grandson (I live with them) is that when he has his screaming fits, people look at us as being awful parents who can't control their kid and some of the more ignorant ones have come up to us and told us that we need to stop him from doing that. One place they told us that was even at the child therapists office which amazed me. I would think they know better than that. And while I don't care what people say because I am very willing to be rude to them, the thing that bothers me is when they say that he needs to be disciplined and spanked. They say it in front of him and in front of his two brothers who are not autistic. They are sending a very bad and false message to the kids and how can I say to the kids that there are an awfully lot of truly ignorant people out there? It's a fine line to walk and its hard balancing on it.
I have a friend that I don't get to invite over to family functions like I would like to because my family can't stand him. They think he is just awful, rude, crude etc. I've told them that he has mental problems and to overlook that but they won't listen or make allowances. I wish more people would open their eyes and get information on people who are not like them. So much discrimination, it makes me sad for my grandsons future as he grows up.
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
6 May 09
I hope to God you are joking and personally don't find it funny because there is more wrong with you than a shrink could take care of. I just read some of your other posts so the only thing I saw wrong with you was the use of the English language and your sense of humor.
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@lowlycook (265)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Yes spicysweetie21, autistic people have lots to teach us about life. And as long as people choose to ignore the growing number of autism cases, they'll never learn wonderful lessons and experiences from our special fellows.
I was school administrator once, and we had such cases. They seemed intimidating at first, especially when they're out of control. But with enough unique classroom management, I saw that autistic kids have more potentials than usual ones, than us. Some people say we ought not to treat them special but ordinary like us. Umm...I beg to disagree. They are special because they have more to teach us than we have to them. And they have better outlooks of life.
We often treat life like desperate, silly creatures not knowing what to grab for ourselves first, now in this life. But they care nothing for this life except love. As long as they have love, they're fully content. We should learn that perspective.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
13 Sep 09
Autism, and Aspergers too. I have Aspergers, and I know what the challenges are. People really need to be made aware of how conditions like these can change the lives of the people who have them, their families, and those who live and work with them. I definitely agree with you that this needs to be understood better.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
6 May 09
I believe every one should be taught about autism because it seems to be a developmental problem. Is it the water we drink, the food we eat, the vaccines that the law says no way to? Autism needs to be understood so someone can find the cause or the cure. I watch these babies with autism and it amazes me how they develop and at what increments they develop at.
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@qiurijingling2007 (50)
• China
5 May 09
Many people may not aware of the seriousness of autism.But the incidence of autistic children is increasing in the modern society.Yes,i agree with you that everyone should be educated about the autism especially people who will become dad or mom.Also autistic children should be given more care and attention.