Is it a big deal if your in-laws doesn't like you?

Yeah i think it is a big deal. They're your wife's family and she loves them so if they don't like you, i create a little tension and animosity. It's like creating a faction and the one left in between is no other than you wife because she must maintain a harmonious relationship. I am not married yet but i'm quite aware that it is really possible to happen to me. I just hope that everybody will be civil about it even if they don't like eachother.

For some people it is. You just have to remember, you didn't marry them, you married their child/sibling. Just make sure your partner is behind you. If they can't live without mom and dad, or go a day without seeing a sibling, you're gonna have to cope with the dislike one way or another. Mine tried to run my life. They thought since I married their brother, they could come over anytime and tell me what to do. Or just walk in without knocking. Or take what they wanted. It took a couple years, and a lot of support from my hubs and one sis-in-law to finally stop feeling guilty cause I wanted to punch them. I finally got tough enough to put my foot down. Not easy! Not emotionally or physically!

not a big deal, but you know its affects the relationship as well. But i think this is not happening to me, hehehe, because my in laws are very good to me . happy mylotting and smile always