What are the things you don't like about yourself?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
May 5, 2009 8:24am CST
Before I used to get angry very easily and now a days I am able to control it. I sometimes get very tensed on small things. What are the things you don't like about yourself?
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
21 May 12
I can't mix-up easily with people I should be. I am not comfortable with some guys and give-up myself easily. I should learn to be more clever like other people and should act more like others do. This is supposed to be my biggest weakness.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
4 Jun 12
I think you should try one step at a time in mixing with people. I am also not able to mix with all people so I chose to be with people whom I feel comfortable and slowly mixed to another person and to another person,e tc.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
6 Jun 12
There are lots of pretenders who pretend to be good friends. I think we need to avoid them in our lives.
@suni51 (3429)
• India
4 Jun 12
Hi ajithlal- this is okay with friends whom I am comfortable with and who are nice and friendly, but this is all about pretenders and cunning type whom I find a problem. You know some people are good and mi-up even with such people knowing fully well that they are not thinking well and trying to harm, I have not that much art of mixing with such people. I stay away and have nothing to do with them, I go my own way.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
6 May 09
There are so many things that I really don't know where to begin. I am always trying to live up to what I think I should be and always falling just a bit short....sometimes a lot short. I think that as long as we are aware that we have shortcomings and are putting in the effort to correct them that we'll be ok. It is the ones that don't see even a possibility of themselves being wrong that should worry but then again they won't.....they think all they do is right and they can do no wrong. right?
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Feb 13
I think it is always good to change ourselves to things that we can change.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
5 May 09
I do not like it that I worry about what other people think about me. I wish I could just block everything out and just worry about pleasing myself and others on as needed basis but I always put others first.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 May 09
I think we should never try to please others or please ourselves. I think we should live our life of what we needed. We do all the things that doesn't hurt ourselves or hurt others.
@Wizzywig (7847)
5 May 09
I'm really not that keen on anything about myself but, I guess that, if I wasn't the way I am, I wouldn't be me. I dont like that I feel I have wasted a lot of my life...& then I feel even more guilty about it knowing that my life is still easier than plenty of other people's.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
17 Mar 12
I think we must learn love to ourselves. If we love ourselves we will be able to love others also.
@sandal13 (142)
• India
5 May 09
well i think my habbit of procrastinating the important wokrs or little jobs is something i really hate! i get tured and bore very easily which is indeed very bad. i wish i could know some methods to get rid of these habbits
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
21 Apr 12
Well try to concentrate one work at a time and try to do it every second rather than doing later.
5 May 09
I am very impatiant and get agitated with people if they don't know what I'm talking about. I wish I wasn't so shy when meeting new people and tend to have the problem that I can't say no, so unfortunantly people take advantage of me sometimes. Physically I would have to say my teeth, and wish I was a bit taller.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 May 12
I think you must try to learn to be little calm and life and try practicing to talk better in life. I think communication helps to make things better in life.
@Darkwing (21583)
17 May 09
There's not much I don't like about myself, because I have the power to do something about that which I don't like. It's a bit like you controlling your anger. The only thing I'm not too happy about at the moment is my weight, which is very difficult to get off when you are unable to exercise properly, but I do my best, and I will get there. In the meantime, I have to accept the situation, and try to do something about it. In the face of others, I'm happy with my weight, but when I'm alone, I'm desperately trying to shed some of it. Brightest Blessings.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
12 May 09
I think that the thing that bothers me more about myself is being so easy for me to go in guilt trips. People that know me well can see this clearly and sometimes they use it to get me to do what they want. I am aware that the problem exists so I should be able to avoid it, but specially when it comes to family members I always end up falling for it. It's a huge effort to fight it and it doesn't always work, although I'm working on it.
@msmamaof3 (244)
• United States
5 May 09
I have very little patience. I wish I could control my patience better.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 May 09
I hope you will have patience in the future. One of the way to get patience or not make the situation worse is just to walk out of the situation when you get angry.
• India
17 May 09
I get angry very easily, I get disappointed or feel negative about things or people also very easily, I want things to happen very quick , have no patience at all. Most worst thing is I feel inferior about myself frequently. I try my level best to control emotions and to be patient and peaceful. I have been able to do so also. But then, nature is nature right, it takes lots of time to change one's nature, and so is mine too. However, I feel very happy when I see a positive change in me.
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@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
5 May 09
I don't like that I judge people without getting to know them but I think that for some reason just about every person has that judgmental element in them. It's kind of stupid and brings me down sometimes and I'm trying to erase that part of me because it would help people feel better. I think that we should try and focus on the things that we like about ourselves rather then our negative things.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
17 May 09
I also doesn't like to judge people and doesn't like people judging me.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
5 May 09
I am a very proud person, who can t forgive very easy , i am stuburn, and maybe i lose my temper very easy if somebody offence me. But i want to control all this, and if i know that i have this problems...maybe is first step in control it. Is good don t hide a problem if you have one.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 May 09
I think you should try to forgive yourself as well as others. When we forgive ourselves and others we get more happiness in our life.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 May 09
there are many things i hate about myself specially if im the type of person who is not that strong willed. and sometimes i could get people, persons and friends hurt just by the way i talk to them. but im trying my best to change those things that other people hate about me and all those things i hate about myself. i hope i could let it perish soon.
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@leebeet (20)
• China
5 May 09
my stange and ridiculous voice,my handsome face with acne,my yellow teeth,my hair with dandruff,my small eyes and large ears...oh,and my.........
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 Mar 12
I think most people looks for personality than the physical appearance and I also think physical appearance does not play good part in life and personality has greater role.
• India
7 May 09
I can't take firm & quick decisions ,it takes time for me to decide & my decisions mostly are not firm.I am too much sensitive,i take tension even for small things.i am more concerned about future instead of enjoying my present.i am influenced by others' view easily,that influence my decisions also.
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@vheilugto (149)
• Philippines
7 May 09
the most thing i really hate about myself is being so imperfect. i always like to be perfect, i know that nobody;s born to be perfect but still each one of us trying to make our work done in a perfect way. right? thats what i mean....
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@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
9 May 09
I have a little bit tense too. But i think it's normal to have that feelings. But the i don't like with my character is, i was still so easily fall in love with women even i already had a wife... Is that normal?
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