Is it really hard for a guys to fogive to someone who hurt them so much?

Philippines
May 5, 2009 10:52am CST
About my husband's friend!We do already our part as his friends. We gave advices what is better thing to do on how to forget his ex. But still he's decided to make a revenge. He could not forgive and forget his ex. It's hard for him to do this.
3 responses
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
5 May 09
I think that some men just have a tough time with really showing they have been hurt and feel that they can't forgive or they move on the forget the existence of their ex...I know my ex husband he can say the words I forgive you but he doesn't show it in action I really don't know!
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• Philippines
6 May 09
It's really true. It's hard for them to show what's the real feelings inside. Anyways, thanks for the response. Good day!
• China
5 May 09
Revenge doesn't make sense! If he doesn't love his ex, why he still cares her or anger for her. Absolutely, he can just ignore his ex, because the best way to revenge is ignoring that person totally, and enjoy your life completely, so that you can make her envy you. That feeling would definitely kill her. How do you think? ?-?
• Philippines
6 May 09
yeah it's true. I told him to look for another girl and enjoy life with it. So by doing this, he simply make a revenge to his ex, right?
• China
6 May 09
In my opinion, that's it. You living happier than your ex would be the best way to revenge! We have a lot of things can do except hating somebody or revenging to somebody. Enjoy your life:)
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 May 09
For me it was easy to forgive my ex because I know I am a good woman and it is his loss that he ended things. I still want to get revenge on him for some things he said to me, but I am going to be the better person and not speak bad about him instead I say good things
• Philippines
6 May 09
thanks for the response. saying bad words is not good especially to us women. Have a nice day!