LOVE a problem

I think maybe you still love her, and can't accept other girls. You should think about this, if you still love her, and she is still signal now, you can call her, and tell her your feelings, maybe she have the same feeling with you, can't forget you ,can't accept other boys, if you decide to forget her, and begin your new life, you should think about the reason that you break up, and move on.

In my opinion, it will never work out to find a new relationship if you are still have feelings for your ex. Our love story/drama is somehow similar, what i did is that just focus on myself... loving myself, keeping God, my family, work and friends on my priority, it's been almost 2 years since I had a broken heart, I still miss him and think of him but I already accept the fact that probably we are not destined for each other. I never had a boyfriend after him but I think I'm happy now, of course everybody should be happy right?

Hello insanealan , well you sound like you have some felings of guilt hanging over you. The only way to work past these feelings, what ever they may be is take some time to be alone and try not to rush getting over your broken relationship. Jumping into another too soon can make for devistating consequences and it would not be fair to the you or anyone else. Take care.

hmm ..interesting man i really feel for ya but since i aint in a relationship and hasn't been for a long while i say the best thing for u to do is to move on yo and try to enjoy the things u can while ur still single ...take up some activities to clear ur mind and join group or places where people are likely to be ... i'm goin through my own phase as well .. i've met a beautiful ,talented , amazing girl and have fallen hard for her ..it's been like yrs since i've felt this way and i think she's my exact equal the probs i'm facin i don't think she feels the same and jus consider me a friend ...we chat almost every day and yet i'm in a lil dilema.. i don't think the right one is out there..most ppl would say " LOVE " will find u if u wait on it but how long does one have to wait ..i'm hitting 30 soon and yet i'm still single .. :(

Whether it's love or guilt really depends on the reason you two broke up. If it was you who was the reason to break up then it probably is guilt. But if it just didn't go well between you two, then it might be love. Anyway, try to talk with someone you trust about it. He or she knows you better and can give you better tips than we can. And if the problems keep on going for several months longer then you might want to see a shrink. ( not meant in a negative way)

It's not really clear what is the problem. Also I don't see why it has to be guilt, unless the reason you don't want to tell why you broke up is something bad.. anyway, give it some time. As long as you're not in love with anyone it doesn't matter too much and when you are I think you'll make it work. Good luck.

You love her more than guilt! Come out from from the shades of breaking up with you girl friend. sometimes love and hate can convert each. you will meet a new girl instead the one you lose.

if you want to no longer with your first , you will not forget it for whole life , this is true. either you forget it at the age of 75 or more, so don't try anymore ways to forget it. but you can avoid him. try to remember him as long as you , or i say half a day. why? becoz as long as you remember him , your interest in your first glf will start decreasing , & at last you came to normal position. it will take 10-15 days minimum , if you follow this strictly , & in the mean time you should avoid other gls also , it may be your choice. same poles of magenet never attract each other , a feeeling from you heart attract you towards him, if you ourself attract towards you(but don't met him), this feeling get lost in other world. thank you.