Marry the person who loves you? or marry the person you love?

leave both , search for partner , which make you both leave each other, if you don't get , then marry who loves you.

oops, critical question, the real fact is i dont love any girl, but the very real fact is nobody loves me...so its a very typical question to answer in my case...i dont know why this happens to me...all of my friends hangout with their girl friends, but i dont have one girl friend..anyway i will marry the one who love me in future.. happy to respond...happy mylotting..

Its not necessary that, the one you love, will also love you..so better be happy with one who loves you, i for my personal choice will go for the man who loves me, if luckily i happens that the one whom you love, loves you too equally and you are not forcing him to be in his life then its very very good, but if he is not willing then its better to go with the one who loves you.

Most likely, i would say "THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU" ... When it comes to love, then I would love to love someone I love but I need the return too. If I dont get the return and another person dare to love me and care about me, then I will marry to the person who love me. I will learn how to love him back soon

if i don't have to choose one,i will choose both.marriage is not so easy to handle .it is different from relationship of bf or gf.marriage mean people shoud afford much more each other.love just the one side of marriage.there are responsibility ,kids ,parents,education .many many new problems we would meet in life.only love is not enought my mind.but love is the basic thing between couples.love will make them get power to deal with any prolbems together.

I think marry someone who love you more will happer than someone who you love, because he or she loves you that means will care you more. But, even if you know that, you cannot control the mind to miss the person who you love finally. So can marry the person who loves you as the same person you love is the best.

I will mary same person but with have both of that thing.I think the marriage will not forever if we dont love the person we married.Maybe my thinking is not same with all,but for me i cannot marrid with the person i do not love.I know many people out there have a happy family by married the person they dont love or know but i really cannot do like them.

the same question i have in mind.it would take a solid commitment from yourself to say you love the person so much you are committing yourself 100% or even 200% it would make a big difference if you marry the person YOU LOVE.and unless you are sure he/she loves you, then go for it.tie the knot and commit to love the person back. it may not be simple love equation to some. but if you've had relationships in the past that didn't work, your gut instinct would tell you when you know he/she is the right person to share the years of your life.that's what marriage is. commitment. it's not just an overnight kind of thing to decide on. and it's not even a fraction of lust to fulfill..it's sharing a part of yourself, the real YOU. now if the person loves you as you do of him/her then the spark will definitely make the marriage lasts.even when you are old and gray, and beauty has passed the signs of recognition.the person who really loves you will still say "I love you" when you are 65..wow! that would be an accomplishment. and you could sit down, enjoy quiet moments, look back at how the years has passed with you together supporting each others' dreams, accepting each mistakes&shortcomings,helping each other, comforting each other in times of difficulties.that is the wonderful feeling and reward you get when you marry the person you love and who loves you same as you do of her/him.