what do girls really want in a relationship?
By kevdiesel
@kevdiesel (129)
Kenya
May 6, 2009 2:17am CST
i met this girl at my place of work right? we got close as friends and we start talking.. she is going out with some one who is well to do, and then some one else asked her out of which she is attracted to this guy, they get on well but this other guy is already in a relationship like she, ok..this new guy does not well to do like her boyfriend..now mylot friends listenup..when i asked who out of this to guy would you want? she said she would like to spend the rest of her life with this new guy, he is handsome,fun to be with and knows how to make her happy but at the moment cant take care of her(money..), while her present boyfriend has it all financially and so she would prefer her present boyfriend(they are engaged right now),later, the new guy decides to end the relationship since it would lead nowhere and she gets mad, starts feeling bad.. and so i say..girl you cant have them both, you made your choice now let the other go or would you want to marry the rich guy and still be seeing the poor guy? atleast he was in a relationship like you before you meet him, why are you feelin bad? WHAT DO YOU WANT!!!
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5 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 May 09
It is different for each girl. I want someone that I could talk to and he would understand me. Money doesnt mean anything to me as long as I love the man. My boyfriend and I met each other at church and knew each other a little before starting to date. I want someone who is fun to be around makes me laugh and accepts me for who I am.
@aprces (1082)
• China
6 May 09
i take it that girls is more realistic than boys,what they find i think is a bread-and-butter man
@roxancuacoy (441)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Hi kev! I understand your story and it seems familiar. My opinion to that matter is that, girls have individual taste. We sometimes put ourselves to the wrong way because of our wants and happiness which we think is right. This actually affect so many factors in oue being. And that, we have a crucial reasons why we choose to be with someone yet we knew it will give us pain in return.
Most of all, what we really want in relationship are the following:
1. Respect
2. Love
3. Loyalty
4. Trust/ honestly
6. Purpose
5. Stable life
@med889 (5941)
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6 May 09
Girls need maturity, honesty, understanding, comprehension, security, love, caring, attention, loyalty in a relationship. They will not think directly of marriage if the person is not well suited for him.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
6 May 09
Woman want love to give and receive.
I don t know if all woman are same, but a woman want something what man want too. to find somebody who understand they, to love, to share great moments, a good life, want to find honest, nice and a real man.
I am sure that man want same too...but in general man want more games too, they are more atracted with woman who just one some adventure, not with serious woman.
