My husband got mad at me because I refused not to make love with him tonight

he is lying =) i know he will make love to you still. he just said that because he was really looking forward for you both to have a time together with that. wish you the best. and just make it up to him ;)

His male ego is hurt when you refused him. He will forget everything when he will calm down and patch up with you. Remember not to refuse him next time as these beautiful moments re important for your relationship to stand up on a good ground. So if you have to win your husband and save your marriage keep your bad mood far from affecting your relationship with your husband. To do so you can inspire and expire 10 times very deeply all your anguish will vanish you will be able to make love or anything you want. Also try meditation techniques. Good luck.

well its a normal reaction i believe, it happens not only to you but to many of us...i always upset my hubby when i refuse so just because im tired..know what? he said the same thing but he always forget when both feel of doing it..dont worry it'll past he's just upset

I'm sure he said it out of anger and after a few hours he will calm down and make up with you. He still loves you I'm sure.

well i guess he just angry .after a few day he will forgive. when come to gal rejected guy always like that .when guy reject gal he will always feel nothing. guy will always say they won't make love with you again ,so when you scare he will go for other gal you will give him anytime no matter you in the mood or not.

All i can say is that you wont be the first woman or the last to anger/upset a husband/partner when you have said no to making love.I know there are alot of men that say no to women as well.Alot of people of both sexs find it hard to make love when they are tired stressed etc.Im sure that he would have prefered you to say no rather than him notice you didnt want to make love half way through.Im sure he will snap out of it.Carry on as normal and dont let it bother you too much.