Relationships and Tattoes

When I was 25, I got a tattoo with my husbands (who I was seeing for about 4 months at the time) and my childrens name on my back. It covers a good portion of my back. AS for regrets, no I do not have any. My only regret is that it is on my back and well how often do you see your back? :)If my mom ever saw it though she would be very upset with me.

I have a friend who is over 50 and covered with tattoos. You can see them working their way up her neck and down her arms even when she's dressed nicely...which may be why she hasn't been able to find an office job since graduating from college 20 years ago. I liked the first couple of ones that she got but then she became too engrossed in them, IMO.

I agree about tatoos and have never gotten any. Today things are so different that I think if he should decide to later on he could get the taken off. He may regret getting it and it will be a learning experience. Now days tatoos are pretty 'cool' stuff and all the young people have them it seems. Every one to their own design. Atleast he out doing something against the law or being beligerant. It is his life.

He will regret getting her name so big so it cannot be covered. How old is he? He will also have a hard time finding another girl that will date him or be involved with him with another girls name on his arm. You might suggest to him to tell all future women that the girls name on his arm is what he wants his daughter to be named that is if he wants children, and a girl, and if the name is something tasteless then suggest it as a nickname or middle name.

Okay I did what he did but it was for my husband at the time. And yes I did end up getting it covered up by another tattoo but I didn't get a huge one mine was on my wrist and easy to cover up. I know that at the time he got it he was madly in love and yes sometimes relationships don't work out but you can't tell him that it was a bad idea. He's just expressing his love and when you're young you do stupid things. I did I didn't completely regret it I mostly got it covered up because I started a new relationship and it bothered my partner more than me. Now my siblings ont he other hand have tattoos that are just ridiculously untasteful and make no sense all of mine have meaning behind them. Now that is a sad story to tell the truth my lil brother has a door hinge inside his elbow now that's ridiculous. p.s. I hope it works out for him.

I wouldn´t mind any kind of tattoo family member (well some kind of politic symbol thingy but i suppose i would allready know there politic and woudn´t mind the tatoo at that point as only I know 2 politic symbols that would apply here (and this is basicly what i know about politc symbols)...i will stop now...

Well it certainly is his personal decision as to what he does with which part of his body (as far as I am concerned people could have tattoes down 'there' if they can tolerate the pain) but certainly he might be regretting with his next girlfriend, that's something to think about

I do not like large tattooes either. I do not want any on my body, no matter what it is. I think he will eventually regret it, especially if he goes to apply for an executive job or something liek that. I think businesses look down on things like that. My husband got a small, tasteful one on his arm and it is not shown unless he takes his shirt off or wears cut off sleeves or tank tops.

I honestly think that putting anyone's name other then your children's name is a bad idea! Reason being that you just never know how a relationship is going to be years from the time of getting the tattoo!

You can't stop kids from doing what they want nowadyas, especially when it comes to tatoo and relationship. They never use their brians to think that when the gal left him how he gonna wash away the tatoo??

Several of my children have tattoos. Honestly, they are an adult now and it's their body. If they regret it later on, then it is their lesson learned, not mine. I don't mind tattoos. Honestly I think they get a bad rap, but having a person's name on you I agree with you there. If he has regrets later, if the relationship doesn't work out, then again; it's his lesson to learn. His regret. He's a young man now and has to make his own mistakes.

thankfully my kids have been smart enough to never tattoo someone's name on their body. my oldest daughter has many tattoos and she is a very petite person and i feel some of her tattos are stupid. i get tired of my haircolor and i change it. i don't think i could deal with a tattoo because i am sure i would someday regret it. i don't think that younger people think how long forever is. omg, i sound ancient but even though it is possible to have one removed, it is not without pain or expense. all 4 of my adult children have tattoos and most are tasteful.

Everyone I have ever known that has gotten a bf/gf's name on them has had their relationship end badly.. I guess I am superstitious about it I won't get my husband's name on me and I asked him not to EVER get my name on him either... I have my oldest son's name on me and plan to get my youngest son put on me soon... My husband has our oldest sons name and his step daughter fomr a previous marriage... Long story but I know the mother and the child and they are both very sweet hubby and her weren't right married

I think that he will regret it, but we all live and learn. I have my children's names tattoed on me. But as for my husband NO WAY! I love him dearly but I won't put his name on me. He feels the same way.

As long as this person is an adult, there isn't much I can say to them however I feel like if you are going to get someone's name on you, you have to really know what you are doing. My boyfriend got my name put on his chest (not too big but you will notice it when his shirt is off) and he did that when we were in high school. I have his name on my arm with our son just a few months ago and nobody had a problem with it from my family. I say that to say this guy really could love that girl enough to do that. I mean, he had to. I don't mind tattoos at all and I often tell my friends before they get one (depending on what it is) be sure you know what you are doing...This guy might regret it when he is thirty. He might regret it if they break up..but it will be a very big lesson to him...

No one in the family has a tattoo. A nephew of my first husband did have a large cross, very plain, done on his left shoulder. It is about four by two or two and a half, I think. I am also not wild about too many piercings. Especially the tongue. My opinions.I hope that no one gets outraged about them.

My husband and I have the same symbol tattooed on us. He had his for many years before we even met, and I had been married to him for two years before I decided to add the tattoo as our connection. My first tattoo was my triquetra on my right shoulder. My husband and I share the Seal of the Necronomicon, mine is on my left shoulder. We also both have lotus blossoms on our feet. I have mine with the OM on my right foot. He designed his own for his left foot. I plan to be completely covered one day in tattoos from the neck down excluding my hands. It will be a long time going though, it's a long process. Each one of my tattoos has deep meaning to me and I don't take any of them lightly. I also have no regrets. Most of the people I know with tattoos don't regret any of their tattoos either. Namaste-Anora

Tattoo are permanent while love relationships are not. lol. I have seen many people regretted having it after break-ups. So i'm strongly against this. Even though i love my bf and i love tattoo.. I'll never try to combine both. Long live to all relationships..

so far i have'nt gone through any sort of tatto,but i did like to engrave some kinda tatto's on my teeths

It seems that when a person gets another one's name on them it just spells trouble. Splitsville or even divorce happens and you are stuck with that name. The only names that you should get are names of children, mom or dad or a pet. At least those people are permanent.