my GIRLFRIEND is out of town do i need to WORRY ?

@born1989 (177)
India
May 7, 2009 5:40am CST
the problem is when my girlfriend was here i used to hang out with her the whole day. now she is out of town for a month & hang out with other friends of mine.i feel that i am flirting with other girls a lot these days & trying & hitting them . why is this happening to me. i love my girl a lot. would my gf be doing the same out there? please help me guys , i think i am shifting focus. please help.
1 response
@marites31 (267)
• Philippines
7 May 09
First to as is, do you trustg yourself? If you do then you dont have to worry, because providing trust to yourself is also giving trust to your partner. There are times in a relationship that space is also needed. Meaning, you still have your individualities and you need to enjoy each other's company away from each other. This is one form of giving trust to each other and at the same time giving each other time. You love her, thats exactly what your worried about that is why your thinking this way but dont you think also that loving is also giving trust. Why worry? If your are in her shoes and she will feel the same way, will it be fair enough for you? Hmm so better free your mind and enjoy yourselves while being apart.:-)
@born1989 (177)
• India
7 May 09
thanx marites . your insight was great