Properly Provided But Does Not Feel the Love No More...
By marites31
@marites31 (267)
Philippines
May 7, 2009 5:50am CST
What will you do if you are in a relationship where in you are properly provided? In terms or material things, your needs, wants and even your luxurious things. I may say everything even the love coming from your partner. But one thing is missing, you cannot give back the love and appreciation that your partner is showing you? Not necessarily monetary or material things, but only loving back! Will be fair enough to give up and tell how you feel? Or give more time to learn and love him back? But till when? Is it not fair to end the relationship to end just like that? What's the best thing to do then?
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@Sador88 (70)
• Netherlands
7 May 09
I wouldn't end the relation immediatly but talking about your feelings is the only fair thing you can do. If you hide it from him / her they will eventually find out you're not caring as much as the other way around. On top of that, they will feel like they're being used or something alike, which makes it even mure hurting. Remember you can never choose your own feelings, so it's not your fault if you don't like someone anymore.
@jewl1126 (102)
• United States
7 May 09
Yes, it is fair to talk to the partner about your feelings. That is how relationships thrive, by talking and working things out. Partners can't read our minds, they need to be on the same page as we are. Subconciously when we are unhappy about a situation, our actions speak louder to others. Whether it's our body language, reactions, or attitude. So use your words, your feelings, to let your partner know what you are feeling inside. Maybe your partner is feeling the same way. Work it out openly for your own sanity's sake.
