Losing ur best friend...
By queenroro
@queenroro (37)
United Arab Emirates
May 7, 2009 8:29pm CST
Recently while listening to my best friends complains about her love life i was about to tell her that nothing in her life is perfect and that she will never be happy with that guy, and that he even tried to hit on me...!!!!...I was scared of telling her...Didn't want to take the risk of losing her..:(
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 May 09
Do you know what peoples say? That sometimes the true can "kill".
I try to be honest as much as i can, but sometimes i ask myself if peoples want to hear the truth all the time....you know what some peoples want? "LIE TO ME BUT LIE NICELY"!!...MAYBE IS BETTER TO LET SHE TO SEE WITH SHES EYES...the truth
In this way you will keep your friend.
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@queenroro (37)
• United Arab Emirates
8 May 09
You know...Love is blind...as long as she is inlove with him, she will never belive me even tho i'm her best friend...they've been together for the past 1 year and he was trying several times to flirt with me...i feel so embaressed and trying all the time to avoid being with them ...i think it's for the best to just avoid seeing him ...i do care a lot about her but if i'll tell her then for sure i'll lose her..:(
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@bren_yrra (354)
• Philippines
8 May 09
True friend tells you what is true and what is good for his friend.It's good to tell your friend about what you want to tell her,but, possible in a proper time.when you tell her about the truth, don't forget to tell her that you are important to her why you are doing that.Don't just give criticisms or remarks that will hurt her badly without telling at the last part that you are his friend and has concern to her welfare.In times of difficult situations, moral support is a big thing to any lady.It means, there are times that when our friends have difficult problems, being a listener would suffice her.If your friend is a true friend then she will consider what you are going to say.She may not accept but if you stay by her side regardless of circumstances then she might realize later on the essence of what you told her.
In friendship, you need to be sensitive to the feelings of others, if not it will result to a broken relationship.
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
8 May 09
If the two of you are really that close, there's no harm of telling her honestly how you feel of the situation. It would be more dishonest of you to hide your honest remarks to her, she'll understand you as a dear friend..she'll understant that your only looking for her welfare as a friend.
@tolits_phils (96)
• Philippines
8 May 09
hello queenroro. your bestfriend deserves to know the truth that this guy is no good for her. she is probably awawre of that and is just waiting for someone to open her eyes. if you are a real friend you will tell her the things that you just mentioned because that will be for her own good. i wonder why you are afraid of telling her. if she gets angry and doesn't believe you then that is her choice, at least you have done your part as a a good friend.
