Anyone turned down by eharmony?

United States
May 7, 2009 9:10pm CST
I have. I actually met several people in Christian chat rooms. A couple I have gone on to meet and have friendships in real time as well! I haven't tried the dating services except eharmony. I was turned down! They said they did not have a match.... that's depressing!
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• United States
8 May 09
My sister was turned down by them. They said something like there were less than 1% of people who would match her. She is a self-sufficient woman who owns her own business. She is intelligent, has a great sense of humor, is very attractive, and a very good person. I would think that there would be more matches for her than that. Maybe you can be too smart or too independent for the people who are signed up there. I mean no offense to anyone who is, but there must be a reason. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this woman and she gets plenty of male attention. Please don't be depressed about it. They don't know you and all the good things you may have to offer...maybe it just isn't the way you will meet Mr. Right :)
• United States
8 May 09
yeah, maybe I'm too smart! That's great!! I do not know! I am not really depressed about it.. it is actually funny to me! I really do, as your friend, get plenty of male attention. I was probably in a low moment and my defenses were down! lol!
• United States
8 May 09
Well, as I am sure you are aware, some men are very intimidated by intelligent, powerful women. Maybe most of the men on there are that type and you wouldn't want them anyway...LOL
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• United States
9 May 09
you know, you may have something there! :)