What would you do if you were in my shoe?

You know what my situation before is the same with you I am also afraid I might not having a baby, the difference only is that my husband is the one having a problem - his sperm count is low. So we consulted my ob-gyne about our problem and the doctor gave us vitamins. The name of the vitamins is ENAT an anti-aging and one capsule cost us eighty pesos. For me, the best suggestion that we had before when our god parents told us that we must pray and ask God to give us a child. So we do it and they help us also in our prayer. The answer to our prayer is my son and we named him "Yeso".

Oh if this is my case I will be really upset. But I will not get depressed, i will try my level best to get my problem solved. Now there are so many hospitals which cure such illness. And they are so many techniques to overcome such problems. Better you consult an infertility treatment hospital. Good luck. may God bless you. Happy my lotting.

we don't have kids either and the problem is on me I don't feel bad about it and he never blames me for anything Hubby and I is about 10 yrs age difference at this point of his life not having kids is not a big deal in fact it saves him from financial burden it's not easy to find a job in his age and having kids in recession will not be a good experience if he is under 40 there is still a long road to go so having kids won't be much of financial burden but now he really is not forcing it and that gives me a lot of room to make plans for two of us and try to survive at the same time kids are kids. you can still adopt if you want one so bad. just because it's not yours doesn't mean it's not human being. don't worry about what other people say. in a marriage, what matters is you and your spouse. a lot of people let outside interference comes in between and so the marriage fails. advices are good, but you two have to decide what will work for your own sake.

This is somrthing that is very personal, of course. I imagine that the best way to overcome fear is to talk it with your spouse. Only you two can say whether you have a family or not. Have you consider adopting? I put up the question because it seems that you want children. Some couples are not interested. I hope that, whatever you do, is for the best for both of you. Take care

Like you I have fertility issues, I made the decision to go through infertility treatments, however before starting we put a time limit on how long we would do the treatments. (we got pregnant on what was to be our last cycle) We were then going to pursue adoption and we still may adopt one day, who knows what tomorrow will bring. It affects your life and your relationship how you let it affect you do not let being a mom be the most improtant thing in your life. Let your relationship with Crist be first, your marriage second. Children, always come after your husband.

i think you must rely on the hospital, find how to get rid of this situation. i know now there are many diseases of infertility that can be cured. if you donot want to have an operation, you can also adopt a child. do not be afraid of the problems. there are many and many woman living well to the end with no child. see that some people are so much reluctant to have a child. take it easy.

Personally I dont think it takes kids to have a family, two people together alone can and are a family. If it had been me and my hubby, we would have just continued with our life. We love each other and are happy with each other and that is what marriage is and should be, even if you arent blessed with kids. I dont think we would have tried to resolve it, I think we would have been just happy that we had each other.

It is very sad to know about your problem but you should seek second opinion as i have seen many cases of infertility being cured by medical intervention. Dear do not lose hope.If your partner is standing by you in times of need then you should not worry and take some concrete steps to resolve the problem. Adoption can also be taken as an alternative if both of you are prepared and ready for it. I wish you good luck.

as you said you have been married, so i assumed that your partner actually is your husband, the better half to you. if it is the case, then you should have no worry, or fear about this situation as your beloved husband would love you more and deeper due to this situation. now a day, no kid is not a problem or a shame to the family. the most important thing is how you and your better half love each other substantially. If you really want to have kid, you may go to adopt one whom you like and love. or you may come to the Lord, Jesus Christ and pray to Him with your heart religiously, peacefully and patiently. you may have a kid if the will of God is in line with your wish. God bless you! dh6136 http://icare707.net