Help me ! I really need your help
By yuhesky
@yuhesky (142)
China
May 8, 2009 2:20am CST
hello everyone:
I and my girl friend graduate from same college,then I find a very good job in another city.But my girl friend can't find a work because the major isn't good for girl.so she decide change her major and learn in another school near my company.I'M so sensation that cann't say one word when i know that.only tear.
we are so happy every day and I save my salary for our weding in future.but one day she said goodbye ,I 'M SO Jar .I don't why .After that i know she has fall in love with a guy which been know from internet.
I don't know how to do , the internet guy is a work from a small village.my girl friend was so puerility .I 'm sure she will be regret for that .and I WAS SO LOVE HER.Help me dear friend.I beg you give me some advice.
2 responses
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
19 May 09
It is hard when someone you love leaves you, but it is better that she leaves before the wedding. This girl is just not worthy of you, and you are better off without her.
Don't sit at home brooding about it, start to make a new life, starting right now. I don't mean go out and find a new girl, because you're not ready for that yet, but meet up with friends, or join a club to make new friends.
Carry on working hard and saving for yourself and your future. You have made a start by reaching out to the people on mylot for help. You have everything going for you - don't let this girl ruin your new life.
@yuhesky (142)
• China
19 May 09
thank you ,i wait a long time .you know ,it's really bad.i keep all my heart in my girl friend .but i lose her ,i feel i lose everything .i can understand all the words which you said.but i can't put her down so quick.but i think with time going i will foget it,maybe after several month i will start a new life .thank you again.
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Since you mention that you know she will regret her decision, I guess you just move on without her. Just remain optimistic that you will find a better girlfriend than this ex and who know your future is lay on this next girlfriend you are going to have. Just learn to accept and move on.
