MOTHER-IN-LAW or MONSTER-IN-LAW?
By bhabytart
@bhabytart (1116)
Philippines
May 8, 2009 3:15am CST
NO OFFENSE....Just want to know what others think....i myself cant comment on this because im still single....but as to what i have observed some think its Monster-in-law because they cant get along with the mother but some think its really Mother-in-law because they have good relationship with them.....how about you what do you think? im sorry for the single ladies out there....but if have comment feel free to send me a comment....
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6 responses
@janiceines (799)
• Singapore
8 May 09
one of my friend alway call her mother-in-law (mother-out-of law)
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
8 May 09
ooohhhh... what does she meant by that? thank you for the comment....
@shibham (16977)
• India
8 May 09
hai friend. in some situations it relys on your parter. if he is dexterous in solving family problems then monster can be mother. to achieve a hardy future we have to go through some understanding. yes there are some crazy mother in law, who are very indocile. i don't know what they want actually. take care.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
8 May 09
thank you for the comment and sorry for the late response...
@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
8 May 09
My mother in law is pretty tough.. and at times I do feel like she wishes that her son had married someone else. But I respect her as i do my mother.. after all, I married my husband and I that mean I have married into his family as well. We've been married for 6 years and she's started to accept me better but she does love my children unconditionally..
So if you think your mother-in-law is out to get you, it's just issues that she needs to deal with herself and it has nothing to do with you. We just need to be patient. If you feel like your mother-in-law has gone overboard with critiques or comments, you can tell your husband gently about it. As long as you don't try to make him pick sides, it'll hopefully turn out okay. :)
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
8 May 09
i hope when i marry my mother-in-law will accept me also... thank you for the comment..
@roxancuacoy (441)
• Philippines
8 May 09
situations comes and we can't help it. in laws are sometimes monster but I think all thier wants is to protect us from danger, some are anger to see it personaly but I think we must know our boyfriend/girlfriends' family first before making lifetime commitments to get aware of those monster.
By the way i'm also single and i'm hoping to have lovable and kind in laws very soon...
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
8 May 09
wow.... thank you for that comment.... hope you'll find the mother-in-law and not the other one.... thank you for the comment...
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
8 May 09
my mother in law is a very nice mother in law that i ever have known, she was there for us through bad times and good times. everytime my husband and i got an argument, she protects me than my husband whom of course her own son. she was there in my times of need when my mother was not available. i love my mother in law so much, that is why i share everything that i have with her, give her christmas gifts and other things that could make her happy.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
8 May 09
oooohhh.... that is sweet..... now thats really a MOTHER-IN-LAW.... thank you for the comment...
@sblossom (2168)
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8 May 09
my mother in law is a tough woman, she could not have a good relationship with her sons. but to me she is nice lady. I think mostly to her I'm foreigner more than her daugher in law. So I have no problem with her.
Just take easy with these relationship when you are not single anymore.
It's not as bad as you see on films.
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