would you question why God given to you this kind of life?

Well, I guess so, If I ever meet him and tell me I could ask any question.

I do not know how old you are,because it seams to me that you are still very young in life. I did lost my mother when I was 41 and I know how it can be. it is very hard to rebuild our lives around the lost of a loved one. You can't talk to them anymore you can't exchange thought with and it takes time to learn how to live without. Even if I have my own family it was hard.I lost my dad 10 years ago now and well it is alright now I took a good 5 years to heal from it. Anyway,I think most important is to rely on God, HE understand your case.One reason for financial difficulties is that you may be reaping from past sins. Even though God forgives us when we confess our sins, many times there are consequences that we continue to reap, sometimes for years. " Deuteronomy 28: " These curses are built in, God doesn't have to intervene to bring curses upon you: they happen automatically, as the result of certain actions. Have a good day GOd bless you.

I did a couple of times, but it didn't change anything so I try to live my life instead of asking you could be right, every question has answers but then again even if you know the answer, what will it do? if you know why you have to live a life like yours, will it change anything? will you be able to change it to a happier one? or will it just lead to more questions? live it fully. give it your best or your worst, take a pick.

we do have choices to make, so as the rest of the people around us. our choices and the results of other people's choices could directly or indirectly affect the kind of life we live. but often times, it's the choices that our parents/family made and also the choices we made along the way are the biggest factor on the kind of lives we live right now. and our future also depends on the choices we make from now on. We cannot question God about the kind of life we have now coz most of it is the result of our choices. if we are closer to God then we would be able to make wiser choices and be able to live the kind of life that is full of blessings (not necessarily material blessing), full of joy and contentment.

No. Not now, not ever. I am content with what God has given me and I appreciate that he made me as unique as I am. Nobody else in the world has the same knowledge and experience as I have.

the only thing I can't personally understand is how come my life was and is fine when most other people's aren't, sure there may have been some bad times but if there's one thing I can't complain about is the quality in which I live in, good stuff happen to me all the time and I don't even know why I deserve them, I pray others are ok too and for good things to happen to everyone but God has his own plans and no one can understand His master plan, however remember that God won't ever give you something you can't handle, if you think you can't you're under the illusion of self-doubt and if things turn really depressing and all you can always find comfort with God, just attend the church or something and God will help you find the way.

hi there, mymaria.. It's not about you, or me, or anyone else. The lives we live are given us for God's purpose. He made all of us the same yet entirely unique. Our job is to be thankful for what He has given us and to make the most out of it so that we can bring Him back all the glory, honor and praise. Rich or poor alike, we are all the same: we need God to put meaning into our lives. Without Christ in our lives, we are nothing.

Who knows what GOD think... But GOD surely don't want to give a bad life to us. Everything that was happen to us nor it's good or bad it has to be there was some meaning to us whose experience it... For examples, if you already had a good or perfect life, will you share your happiness to other people and remember that GOD who's give you that?.. And if you had a bad life that you don't want to accept it, will you face it and still be strong by praying to GOD to give a better life?.. To reach the happiness i think is not easy because mistaken are always haunted the human beings... I often asking that questions to my self before mymaria... The answers is, it all starts from our parents mistaken. Maybe they where forgot to be still close to GOD when they where in the golden age since they where married. But we should not always blame them for what happen to us... What we do it's just take the lesson from the older experience and never do the same mistaken like the older do... You and i had a same experience of life mymaria. And this is essense of life... Face it, Learn it, and Pray for it... GOD BLESS YOU mymaria.

We always have a choice. God has always given us a choice. It is just that we wallow in so much self pity that we cannot see the choices in front of us. At times we just dont want to see. God always brings us to a crossroad. It is we who chooses one of them and make our life. So then why question God for choices one has made. For some people circumstances make them take some decisions but then it is still their choice. Maybe in distress but still their choice. We have a choice always. So why blame god.