what do you do if someone loves you and you dont love him or her back?

Philippines
May 8, 2009 6:07am CST
well this happens a lot of times, i should say that you would have to be straight with the person and not give him or her any false hopes never accept any gifts from that person as he or she would say that you are using him or her and try your best not to avoid that person just make sure that you are certain about your message that you are just friends.
5 responses
• Philippines
9 May 09
yeah.. I don't give false hopes to that person. But something happened to me, When I was in college, there was this person who loved me but I made it clear that I was not interested and that I don't want any relationship. We ended up being friends then being together....
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• China
8 May 09
Oh, yes, it happened every place i had been. and everytime i can turn the relationlship into friendship, and all the girls i met are good and sensible, and now some of them married some are still alone. just be sincere you can handle every relationship appear at everytime! wish you good luck! have a nice day!
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@med889 (5941)
8 May 09
Then you should tell him your feelings because the more you wait the more he will believe that you love him too and if this happens and later he comes to know then you will be surrounded by questions which you will want to do not answer so better tell him your true feelings and stay friend with him.
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• China
8 May 09
thanks for your sharing.but it is no need to me.the first reason is i am not handsome,not tall,and most of all i am poor,so there will be very few girls will love me.so i wont learn how to face that.the second reason is i have a girl friend already,i love her very much even more then love myself.and she love me very much too.so other girl wont love me,even if some of them do love me,she wont tell me.because they all know i have a beautiful girl friend now.but i still thanks for your sharing.
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• United States
9 May 09
Be honest and straightforward and let them know exactly how you feel. Do not lead them on with your silence.